u/MarzipanAggressive75

It was my first relationship and he was an amazing human being. He was doing exceptionally well in all aspects of life. Somebody that I looked up to. He had achieved everything despite being born in a poor family by his own merit. Excellent at communication and emotional intelligence and was very well read. The relationship didn’t workout because of various reasons. It has been a while since it ended, however every new person I talk to can’t even hold a candle to him. I am feeling afraid that I might never meet anyone who is even half the man he is. How do I get over this ? Any advice is appreciated.

I have recently started making cold brew and have been enjoying it considering its summer. However I miss the clarity of a pourover or aeropress. Is there anyway to reduce the residue in cold brew?

I am conventionally unattractive ( not because I am fat or not groomed/ don’t do skincare or hair care ). I have never been in a relationship. Only had a few casual things previously where no feelings were involved from the other side. Now I am in a talking stage and this guy seems too good to be true. I am afraid that he is going to use me for my body despite having given no indications of that. I do not want to sabotage a connection because of my insecurities. How to make sure that I don’t do that ? Any tips will be helpful