At what point should I be talking to my PCP about a hysterectomy?
Hello!
I am 36, never been intimate, in a relationship, situationship, or anything. I have pretty much a nonexistant sex drive. Terminally single, pretty much by choice and just how it turned out I guess? I've never inserted anything into my vagina. No fingers, no toys, no tampons. I exclusively use pads.
Anyway, over the past year or so, my periods have been really strange. They usually only last maybe 5 days, they are usually a week early, if not more. I never know when I'm supposed to get it. Tracking it is a headache on it's own. When I do get it, it varies in intensity. Sometimes pills help, other times they do nothing. Most often it smells horrific. Like a mix of BO and something else I can't really identify. After years of clotting every single time, this past year there have been times I don't clot at all, and other times where I feel like I'm sitting in jello.
More recently, I've started cramping in between periods. I've had ultrasounds done and they can't seem to see anything, but it's getting more frequent now. I'll finish a period and I'll start cramping again the next week. It's not constant mind you, and not as painful as during my period, but I'm getting tired of having them all the time.
I realize that there may be nothing wrong. But I can't get a pap smear because I've never been sexually active. While cervical cancer doesn't run in my family, I'm constantly worried about not being able to get tested. I get calls from my Doctor's office asking if I've been intimate so they can start doing the tests, but it's always a no from me.
Is there any reason to bring up a hysterectomy with my PCP? I don't like going to the Doctor's without what I feel like is a legitimate reason.