Discovered a leak out of the drip pan in my AC system in my attic over the weekend. Discovered it by seeing water form in the ceiling of a bedroom. Ceiling, insulation, and the wood underneath the AC unit is going to need to be replaced. Is this best for a general contractor or is there a specific business ins Sanford that may be better suited?
Any recommendations at all would be great.
Looking for advice on a rocky marriage.
TLDR:
A little bit of background, Me (30M) and my wife (28F) have been married for seven years next month. We’ve been together for nine total. We had a journey through marriage as I’m sure everybody else on here has. My wife came down with some serious medical issues in the early years of our marriage. It left a lot of the responsibility up to me of carrying the load of the house, finances, bringing in a paycheck, and taking care of our oldest (we did not have our youngest at this point). Eventually, through a lot of hardship, we were able to get her healthy again and have our youngest who is now a toddler.
I still find myself handling a majority of the workload. I get up with the kids, I do the dishes, vacuum, really all of the housework. We depend a lot on my income, and I’m constantly trying to advance at work to help improve our financial situation, but damn I’m so exhausted.
To cut to the chase, we had a very big fight. We both were at the end of a very long and stressful day. I was trying to keep it together for the sake of the kids and not bringing the energy into the house. My wife decided to bring that energy home with her. This resulted in her charging into the house, going straight to the shower and then coming out and popping down on the couch. This is a repeat event, because no matter how tired I am, she’s always somehow more tired. Because she’s more tired, I’m expected to pick up the workload, it doesn’t matter how tired I am or have burnt out I am.
There’s always a justification for her behavior too. I’ll admit (because of everything on my plate) I can lose my cool sometimes. Nothing crazy, just visibly frustrated. To which I always get told to fix my attitude. Same thing in reverse? There’s a reasons she acts that way so it’s okay. I’m just at a loss.
I do nothing for myself. I don’t have any hobbies, I don’t have time. I can’t even seem to leave the house on my own for more than an hour without getting 7000 questions about why I have to go do what I’m doing.
Last night’s fight resulted in her, calling me a bitch in front of our children. We haven’t really spoken since. I’m thinking marriage counseling, but I don’t even know that she will go at this point.
Looking for advice on how I can move forward. I love my wife with all of my heart and I want this marriage to work.i no
Edit: my wife does work full time job, so I do understand having rough days or being tired, but it’s basically every day.
I haven’t been a member with UHC for over 15 months now and I keep getting EOB letters multiple times a week. It’s constant and it keeps repeating the same appointments over and over. My son’s one appointment from January 2025 I’ve been sent the same EOB probably 12 times at this point.
HOW DO I MAKE THIS STOP?
And yes. I (foolishly) called their support line which I think my son could probably do a better job of understanding customer needs. Told the guy I wanted all mail to stop. Asks “which appointment are you talking about?” About 7 or 8 times to me before I hung up in frustration.