Loss
32 here. End of April found we were pregnant and it was our first. We both were super happy and started planning (maybe a bit too much in excitement). Got an early ultrasound which all looked good. My wife had a really hard time with super bad first trimester symptoms though.
At 8th week ultrasound just an hour before her ultrasound all her symptoms went away and she could tell they are all gone as she was having bad symptoms till that moment. On ultrasound we found the baby did not have a heartbeat and had grown to full 8 weeks that day. They had us undergo a dnc right away.
We both have been devastated ever since. I know miscarriages are common, I am in medicine myself but this has been really hard so far.