I live and work in San Diego. It’s absolutely beautiful outside but I am currently FREEZINGG my ass off in the office. I went outside to thaw out for 15 mins and now I am back with my big thick sweater on shivering🥶. Anyone else have the same issue? lol
Life is weird… I previously posted about the guy I was dating ended up sleeping with others at the same time. Ended up talking to some of these girls when we all found out. One mentioned switching sides because she’s done with men. Told her I was thinking of doing the same. Thought it was a joke…asked for a date. Ngl, she’s really pretty. I’m going for it
After messaging some girls I suspected he was/is with, about 5 responded to say they have also been seeing/talking/sleeping with him. He’s been telling us all the same things and “building” a future with us all. After a few confronted him, he decided to delete all his social media accounts. Who knows how many others there really are and unfortunately will be. Be safe out there, seems like you can’t trust anyone these days. Fuck this guy!
So…update.. messaged a few other women and confirmed there is overlap. He’s been lying, sleeping with us all, and planning a future with a few of us. We’ve all dumped him. He’s freaking out and trying to do damage control and play victim.
This is sick and deranged behavior. I don’t think I can keep dating at this point
I’ve been dating a guy I met on hinge for about 3 months now. Things seemed to be going well, and I was under the impression we were working towards a relationship.
He’s got baggage (going through a messy divorce, has a kid, rents a room from a friend). I do not (I’m independent, have my own place, no kid, no ex still in the picture).
There was a particular post about him made online where I found out he was dating and sleeping with other women. No idea how many woman or amount of time in between partners. I feel betrayed. This is incredibly scary and upsetting for me. I plan on getting an STI test ASAP.
When we discussed it, he was super apologetic and said that he didn’t think we were exclusive. I asked if his ex knows about the post. He said hell no, she would ruin his life if she saw it and would threaten to take custody of their kid.
My revenge thoughts…. send the post to his ex and let karma do its thing.
Yay or nay?
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I’ve been dating this guy for a few months now. We get along great and lot of fun together. He has baggage (going through divorce, has a kid, lives with friend), I do not. Found him posted on my local “are we dating the same guy” and found out he’s sleeping with others.
He apologized that I saw that and said he’s dating around.
We weren’t exclusive, but I assumed I was the only one he’s sleeping with.
He said he hasn’t felt this way about anyone else and wants to go exclusive now.
Do I have a right to be mad about this? Is this normal? I feel like if he’s able to be with someone else already, how can I expect him to be faithful long term?
Has she confirmed? Does she smoke daily?