u/Mikasa_shakespeare

agreeable spell needs friend because he feels bored 25/8. pls someone be his friend. humble request

Okay guys, so recently I posted about a guy who wanted to approach me. For those who are new, here's a quick summary:

There was a guy from my university who wanted to propose to me. I had no intention or plans of getting married, and I didn't want to give him any false hope. So I told him directly that I wasn't planning on getting married and that he shouldn't expect anything from me.

He said he'd wait. I told him I couldn't make any commitments because I don't know what the future holds, and I asked him to simply move on because he wasn't going to get a positive response from me.

Later, I came to know that he was sad, depressed, and all that. He told me he'd always respect me, etc. But then he started telling people around me that "a girl rejected me" (he didn't mention my name). I also found out that he stalks me, and the audacity, he even asked someone else for a picture of my CNIC. I ignored all this bullshit because he didn't know that I knew about any of it.

A few days back, I was already pissed off about something he did again, so I called him out and bluntly said a few things. In response, he started giving explanations and literally said:

"Aapko lagta hai ke aapko mujhse is tarah baat karni chahiye? Jo future mein hoga woh to abhi chhorren abhi,(he still thinks k kuch hoga??even though i said clear no) lekin aapke words appropriate nahi hain." andddd ye legit said k shayad aap ko buri lgi.hi ye baat, mein esa ni hun mein apologize krta hun(to be on safe side), etc etc, agr meri 80% mistake hai tou 20% aapki bhi hai" i did nothing, literally nothing.

Like... am I some sort of his wife that I have to speak to him with a certain level of respect? 😭 Because what the hell? Does he not remember his own actions?

I didn't reply to his messages after that and left him on seen (my blue ticks are off btw).

Andddd... the very next day, I found out he was in the hospital. One of his friends posted a status of him on a drip, and there's a common group between his circle and mine. That friend mentioned that he's been fainting repeatedly and that the doctors are saying:

"Hamein samajh nahi aa rahi aisa kyun ho raha hai. Shayad kisi cheez ki anxiety hai." 😭????

Now I'm wondering... is all of this because he's trying to make me feel guilty? Or am I just being overly negative?

a person who thinks all the time has nothing to think about except thoughts, so, he loses touch with reality and lives in a world of illusions

Okay guys, so recently I posted about a guy who wanted to approach me. For those who are new, here's a quick summary:

There was a guy from my university who wanted to propose to me. I had no intention or plans of getting married, and I didn't want to give him any false hope. So I told him directly that I wasn't planning on getting married and that he shouldn't expect anything from me.

He said he'd wait. I told him I couldn't make any commitments because I don't know what the future holds, and I asked him to simply move on because he wasn't going to get a positive response from me.

Later, I came to know that he was sad, depressed, and all that. He told me he'd always respect me, etc. But then he started telling people around me that "a girl rejected me" (he didn't mention my name). I also found out that he stalks me, and the audacity, he even asked someone else for a picture of my CNIC. I ignored all this bullshit because he didn't know that I knew about any of it.

A few days back, I was already pissed off about something he did again, so I called him out and bluntly said a few things. In response, he started giving explanations and literally said:

"Aapko lagta hai ke aapko mujhse is tarah baat karni chahiye? Jo future mein hoga woh to abhi chhorren abhi,(he still thinks k kuch hoga??even though i said clear no) lekin aapke words appropriate nahi hain." andddd ye legit said k shayad aap ko buri lgi.hi ye baat, mein esa ni hun mein apologize krta hun(to be on safe side), etc etc, agr meri 80% mistake hai tou 20% aapki bhi hai" i did nothing, literally nothing.

Like... am I some sort of his wife that I have to speak to him with a certain level of respect? 😭 Because what the hell? Does he not remember his own actions?

I didn't reply to his messages after that and left him on seen (my blue ticks are off btw).

Andddd... the very next day, I found out he was in the hospital. One of his friends posted a status of him on a drip, and there's a common group between his circle and mine. That friend mentioned that he's been fainting repeatedly and that the doctors are saying:

"Hamein samajh nahi aa rahi aisa kyun ho raha hai. Shayad kisi cheez ki anxiety hai." 😭????

Now I'm wondering... is all of this because he's trying to make me feel guilty? Or am I just being overly negative?

guys is there any good and reliable cat shelter in fsd? who takes good care of cats? and do they require anything?