u/MilFsNCookies-YesPls

AP is a phenomenal person whom I really had a great time with since the beginning of this year. We have become super close almost like a new best friend. Physically attracted to this person , this person is smart and funny truly an amazing person. I like many things about AP and maybe in another time we could have been together but I feel like I need to pump the breaks a bit.

AP has been talking about breaking up their marriage and moving out solo with their child but that’s not a direction I want. I can’t be the reason for ending a family. On top of all this I have my partner which I do want to continue with.

I put myself in this position because my partner and I were having some difficulties that I was not understanding or comprehending at the time. I have since educated myself on the issues and have come to terms that maybe things are not how I was imagining them at the time.

I knew AP and was very much captivated by this person for a while. One thing led to another and “boom” suddenly were was at it. Didn’t mean for things to escalate but they did. And I enjoyed our encounters probably the best in my life.

Lately I have been second-guessing what has been happening. I would like to stop this before the point of no return. How can I do this without crushing AP? I won’t ghost this person or block them cause that’s not an option for me. I don’t want to hurt AP but I feel like it’s becoming something that should not be.

Update: to the person who sent me messages I can assure you I am not your AP. I can assure you I was not talking about you. I don’t even know you. You said you notified his partner already, you just ruined someone’s relationship by doing that. You should of asked me first and I would have clarified. I am not that other person. I can assure anyone on here the people I am talking about do not even know what Reddit is. I have never had an affair with anyone on social media, all mine are local and in person.

I just beat Blasphemous on the switch and loved it! Some people from that sub recommended part two and some (very few) recommended Salt and Sanctuary. Many were giving it a bad rap but I bought it in PC cause of the summer sale. I FREAKING LOVE IT! I loved blasphemous and that’s what led me to buy S&S but I got to say I’m enjoying this game way more. I don’t really see the need for a map. I know that was the big complaint but honestly I don’t need it. It really thought out well. I bought the second one also but I’m not going to expect much from it since a lot of people are not happy with it.

Anyways, that’s my piece and thank you if you recommend the game to me over on the blasphemous sub.

I just finished my first play through on switch and it was amazing little game. I wasn’t expecting this much enjoyment for six bucks. I love you so much. I was gonna do another play through, but I saw that it was on sale on PC so I just bought it through Steam and I’ll do my second plate through that way.

If you like dark souls, definitely I think you should try this little game out. It’s super light you can carry it around on your switch and it has a lot of content.

After finishing Blasphemous (which I’m loving and believe I’ll finish soon) which of the two titles would give me the same enjoyment and is it make a difference on Steam or Nintendo Switch?

For context: I have Blasphemous on switch and the second one on Steam (PC). Which I have not played yet.
I have the Last Faith on Switch and I’m kind of looking to get Salt and Sanctuary on steam.

AP lives about an hour and a half away from me. Our schedules conflict like crazy. After work AP has to go home and do the normal life stuff with her little family. There’s no room for us after work. Also AP’s spouse has an Apple tag in AP’s car. So when ever we met, AP has to drive and park at her work place parking lot and we have to sneak off right before sun rise or anyone see us escape in my cars.

I’m free in the afternoons since I don’t live with my partner and on the weekends I go stay with my partner if I feel like it. So AP and I don’t really talk on the weekends.

AP and I can only see each other when I wake up early and drive to see her before work ( sometimes only for 20 mins) or if she can call out of work we can go somewhere. But that is risky also because if she calls out of work, her car is still there.

I have not seen AP in a few weeks or even maybe close to a month. I wish we could but our schedules don’t allow it. AP has been feeling some type of way and wants more time. So do I but we just can’t atm.

My question is, how much time is to much time away from each other before it becomes an issue?