u/Minimum-Wedding-4475

▲ 3 r/dvd

How can I start

I live in the Eu, specifically in Greece, I am interested on staring a DVD collection because I am frustrated when a piece of media that I love is pulled off a platform. Any advice where to start collecting DVDs or DVDs in Greek, the store's that I knew that sold DVDs have shut down

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u/Minimum-Wedding-4475 — 4 days ago

I need friend advice.

I don't know what to do anymore

For some context, I am a teen introvert girl, I don't like confrontation , I been 'friends' with this girl for 3 years( I put it in '' because I don't know what it is anymore let's call her Mia) , she moved to the island with her family and we became friends because the teacher put her next to me and as we talked, I saw we had a few things in common. I introduced her to my friend group that considered of another girl (lets call her Ella) . At first, everything was fine, I texted her, she replied and the other way, the first year was fine. The second year I let go of Ella because I always felt exhausted with her and like I was a free therapist and rarely the other way around. But Mia stayed friends with her, the texts stayed fine, with me texting and her sometimes replying. Now when I text, she never responds. We went on a few days trip with my school. One night before we went to the club, she was saying that she wasn't beautiful and saying bad things about her self, I responded with trying to uplift her spirit's (she has done that down talking about herself since the first year and the second year where we went on another school trip and some times when we are alone or with other friends. And every day of the school year she seemed down and I always,again,tried to uplift her spirit and nothing changed) and shudently she got mad at me and went on the rest of the days basically ignoring me and talking with Ella on the phone (Ella doesn't go on the same school as us). When I try to talk about my feelings to her and how that makes me feel, she gives me the silent treatment but when she tells me when she is uncomfortable, I feel small and always try to make her feel better. She would also some school days say hello of good morning and then ignore me for the rest of the day or another day she will be so exited and happy. When I spoke with my family, they told me to let her go and that she had problems but I don't know what to do since she is my only friend and I am not very close with the others. (When we were a trio,I always felt left out and ignored, to all my friendships it seems that they don't stay longer than 3 years and that I never come first, like texts and opinion) I came here to vent because I really don't know what to do anymore, because the first year she was so nice and I have a small hope that somewhere inside her, that girl still exists) Also, we would always hang out at her place, it takes me an hour to get there by foot and so is the same time from her house to mine. She has only come to my house three times and I always go to hers and when I ask her to come she says that she doesn't want or that it's too far and when I am leaving her place after a hang out, I feel nothing, just a void. Her birthday was a few months ago and when I asked her if I should bring something, she told me that I don't have to bring something and that she will only get a cake and celebrate with Mia and her brother (her parents work a lot) so I didn't went after she told me that. I feel like I am caring for this friends ship alone, like it's one sided. I am the only one that reaches out or start a conversation, sometimes she would call, shear new, ask how I am and when I pose when answering, she changes the subject. Her and Ella always hang out and go out but when I suggest that she is suddenly too busy or has something to do. (I may keep updating because everything feels fogy right now, I am scared she will find this post. I feel like everyone is moving forward but I am stuck where I am no matter how I try to change,) Sometimes she brings the fact that I have a strict mother, I only have my mom since my dad is dead, when I tell her why we don't hang out,in the city,but my mother let's me when I don't have cores to do

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u/Minimum-Wedding-4475 — 4 days ago

I don't know what to do anymore

For some context, I am a teen introvert girl, I don't like confrontation , I been 'friends' with this girl for 3 years( I put it in '' because I don't know what it is anymore let's call her Mia) , she moved to the island with her family and we became friends because the teacher put her next to me and as we talked, I saw we had a few things in common. I introduced her to my friend group that considered of another girl (lets call her Ella) . At first, everything was fine, I texted her, she replied and the other way, the first year was fine. The second year I let go of Ella because I always felt exhausted with her and like I was a free therapist and rarely the other way around. But Mia stayed friends with her, the texts stayed fine, with me texting and her sometimes replying. Now when I text, she never responds. We went on a few days trip with my school. One night before we went to the club, she was saying that she wasn't beautiful and saying bad things about her self, I responded with trying to uplift her spirit's (she has done that down talking about herself since the first year and the second year where we went on another school trip and some times when we are alone or with other friends. And every day of the school year she seemed down and I always,again,tried to uplift her spirit and nothing changed) and shudently she got mad at me and went on the rest of the days basically ignoring me and talking with Ella on the phone (Ella doesn't go on the same school as us). When I try to talk about my feelings to her and how that makes me feel, she gives me the silent treatment but when she tells me when she is uncomfortable, I feel small and always try to make her feel better. She would also some school days say hello of good morning and then ignore me for the rest of the day or another day she will be so exited and happy. When I spoke with my family, they told me to let her go and that she had problems but I don't know what to do since she is my only friend and I am not very close with the others. (When we were a trio,I always felt left out and ignored, to all my friendships it seems that they don't stay longer than 3 years and that I never come first, like texts and opinion) I came here to vent because I really don't know what to do anymore, because the first year she was so nice and I have a small hope that somewhere inside her, that girl still exists) Also, we would always hang out at her place, it takes me an hour to get there by foot and so is the same time from her house to mine. She has only come to my house three times and I always go to hers and when I ask her to come she says that she doesn't want or that it's too far and when I am leaving her place after a hang out, I feel nothing, just a void. Her birthday was a few months ago and when I asked her if I should bring something, she told me that I don't have to bring something and that she will only get a cake and celebrate with Mia and her brother (her parents work a lot) so I didn't went after she told me that. I feel like I am caring for this friends ship alone, like it's one sided. I am the only one that reaches out or start a conversation, sometimes she would call, shear new, ask how I am and when I pose when answering, she changes the subject. Her and Ella always hang out and go out but when I suggest that she is suddenly too busy or has something to do. (I may keep updating because everything feels fogy right now, I am scared she will find this post. I feel like everyone is moving forward but I am stuck where I am no matter how I try to change,) Sometimes she brings the fact that I have a strict mother, I only have my mom since my dad is dead, when I tell her why we don't hang out,in the city,but my mother let's me when I don't have cores to do

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u/Minimum-Wedding-4475 — 4 days ago