u/Minokurei

Hello,

Actuellement propriétaires d'une clio 3 diesel (2007, 240000km) qui va nous coûter de plus en plus cher à entretenir et à faire rouler, on envisage de partir sur de l'électrique.

On fait environ 11000km par an et on estime notre économie sur carburant/assurance/entretien à 150€/mois (sur les tarifs actuels...).

Pour nos besoins, on a repéré la Polo ID en Life (~24000€ avec l'aide déduite) pour quand même pouvoir profiter du régulateur de vitesse, non dispo sur la Trend, et avec une remise plus intéressante de la part de la concession.

Pour garder des économies de côté, on envisageait un apport de 9000 et un financement de 15000.

On a regardé les sites comme MeilleurTaux et on s'attendait à des taux élevés mais ça dépasse carrément ce qu'on avait prévu.

Apparemment il y a des financements à 1% pour certaines banques mais pour 10000€ max.

On a regardé du côté occasion, on voit quelques Zoé à 15000€. Ca commence à faire cher pour des véhicules qui ont du vécu, un SOH parfois bien diminué et pas d'option ni de charge rapide.

Est-ce qu'il reste des taux intéressants chez certaines banques ?

Ou des véhicules fiables qu'on n'aurait pas envisagés ?

31 ans / Femme/ pas de traitement habituel

Bonjour,

J'ai depuis 2 semaines des douleurs dans le dos. A la base sur la droite du dos, le long de la colonne vertébrale. Maintenant c'est à gauche. Je me demande si j'ai pas trop compensé après l'apparition des douleurs à droite.

Il y a un point près de l'omoplate et l'autre au-dessus de la taille / creux du dos.

J'ai consulté deux ostéopathes sans amélioration du souci.

La douleur s'intensifie depuis quelques jours, c'est devenu intolérable au repos, même sous antidouleurs (paracétamol, ibuprofene) et relaxant musculaire (lumirelax)

J'ai la sensation que c'est très serré/tendu à cet endroit et en profondeur.

Le mouvement diminue la douleur mais si je suis assise ou allongée c'est insupportable.

Masser la zone semble soulager un peu aussi mais la posture d'auto massage est vite inconfortable.

J'ai fait du sport (abdos et renforcement dos) et ça calme pendant quelques temps mais ça fait deux fois que ça revient aujourd'hui accompagné de nausées (et léger vomissement la deuxième fois).

J'ai essayé la bouillotte chaude mais le soulagement est de courte durée.

Niveau antécédents, j'ai déjà eu des douleurs de dos notamment à cause de mon hyperlordose mais rien de comparable niveau intensité.

Je dois voir ma généraliste bientôt mais l'intensité de la douleur rend l'attente insupportable.

Est-ce que je peux faire quelque chose pour tenir d'ici là ?

TW: >!cat cancer, suicidal ideation!<

My cat Lilie was diagnosed with large-cells lymphoma 3 months ago.

She was fine and then suddenly started eating less and less so we went to the vet.

We started chemotherapy right away.

It worked for a month, the tumor almost disappeared and then it stopped working and the cancer developed quickly. Other tumors appeared, she started having even stronger nauseas and almost died two weeks ago because of it.

Her oncologist saved her life and we started another type of chemo.

Unfortunately, her health didn't improve and she developed hepatitis at the same time.

She stopped eating totally even with her medication to reduce nausea.

On Friday, the vet told us that the resistance of her cancer would not allow for a total remission.

And that even if we started the treatment against hepatitis at the same time, it was going to be long and potentially painful for her, with, at best, more bad days than good ones. And not a lot of time left.

We took the decision to prevent her from suffering the following Monday.

We spent 3 days showering her with love, taking pictures and making memories.

I knew it would be hard after her passing but I didn't expect it to be this hard.

On the way back after the last goodbye, I had a strong reaction in the car. From what I remember, I kept shouting that I wanted her with me, that I couldn't live without her.

She fought so hard against cancer for 3 months that sometimes I wonder if we accepted euthanasia too soon. I feel like I betrayed her. Sometimes I feel like I killed her.

We are 2 days later and I still don't want to live anymore.

I keep thinking that I want to die.

I am under medication to lessen my feelings (Alprazolam/Xanax). But as soon as it stops working, I am back in a distressed state.

I keep replaying her last moments in my head.

I haven't left my bed since. I sleep a lot thanks to the Alprazolam. It helps me not to feel anything.

My boyfriend is taking care of me and our 3 other cats. He has to manage his pain and everything else and I feel guilty for this too even if he keeps telling me that he is OK and that I need to rest.

I think the only reason I am still here is because I don't want my boyfriend and my 3 other cats to suffer the way I do now.

But I just can't imagine a world without her.

Not leaving my bed allows me to ignore the fact that life around me goes on even when she is not here anymore.

My doctor put me on medical leave for a week and even after talking about my suicidal thoughts, she doesn't take it seriously.

I will see my therapist tomorrow, I hope it will help a bit but I don't want to hear again and again that I should just wait to feel better with time. 

I shared my life with Lilie for almost 8 years. 

She chose me at the shelter when I was looking to adopt a second cat.

She stuck with me during my whole visit and tried to sneak into my bag. I knew she was the one.

She was so clever, full of life and love.

She could communicate her needs and feelings so well.

She loved eating. You could throw a piece of dry food through the room and she would start chasing it to eat it and she would come back for more.

She had such expressive eyes. We called her our Disney Princess.

I miss her. I can't go on without her.