u/MiracleDes99

Hey I wanted to see if I can get your perspective on something. I have a really weird quirk where shy men almost always ADHD and or ASD are drawn to me. For relevancy I am autistic and ADHD. I have had this thing that Ive noticed that I bring shy men come out of their shells. My parents always say that I have a gift of making anyone talk. I have had at least 4 men in my life tell me that after they met me they felt themselves being more comfortable talking. I have had random people tell me that they felt comfortable around mw. I wanted to ask why this could be?

Hey im a first year SLPA. Im in my last week of the school year and ive have had it. I work at a school for students with disabilities its on the more moderate to severe spectrum especially since this is the most restrictive environment. I have students ages 3-22. My SLP is in her 3rd year at that school (25 years as a slp) and im the 3rd SLPA at that site Part of my responsibilities are my DSC TOP billing + writing out lesson plans with students goals, times + what I am going to do. It feels like my SLP only looks at them during progress report season and comes to me with all of the mistakes ive made but I wish she would’ve told me when the issue first appeared. Im terrified of being fired because I truly like working with the kids. I work at a mainstream school once a week and the SLP there is totally differnt. I get feedback on day of session and she reads + confirms my dstop billing same week. Relevant information I am autistic and have ADHD which I disclosed with my supervising SLP’s. Honestly im exhausted. My SLP has an energy that sucks the life out of me and the room when she enters. Im constantly terrified about her wanting to have a chat. If I get fired i dont know what Inwilk do for money. I just wish I was better at my job and Im frustrated that I feel like I cant do anything right. I know she will say to just talk to her but her demeanor is so off putting