u/MiracleDes99

So I weight quite a bit im approx 200-215 pounds. Ive been strength and conditioning for a bit now. Im a 6month white belt during class today we worked in triangle chokes. My partner is a 6 year white belt who told me that I put too much weight/pressure on him. When I asked the instructor what to do he said nothing you executed the move correctly. The guy said I was making him hold all of hus weight with his neck. I dont know what I can do to not do that or even like if that’s what im supposed to do. I have been taught to bridge my hips higher because I am so short ajd have short limbs.

I miss my best friend. We had such a beautiful connection. We have been close friends for years. I have always felt feelings for him. We only saw each other a few times a year (long distance friends) but whenever we were together we were very close. Sometimes we would hold pinkies and would tease touching index fingers. He would always be touching me jn som eay. Having his arm around my shoulder, touching my face and tummy. We had a beautiful summer once I never had felt closer to him. He danced for me during karoke. We laid down on a bed and faced each other while talking. People asked our mothers if we were dating. He told me I was beautiful. That was 4 years ago tho. I can never get him out of my mind. I miss him and will always love him. I want to tell hil but im scared. I regret never telling him outright my feelings and never going for it.

I think I have a thing for shy men. Im autistic and ADHD and insanely outgoing. I have . I have had this thing that Ive noticed that I tend to make shy men come out of their shells. My parents always say that I have a gift of making anyone talk. I have had at least 5 men in my life tell me that after they met me they felt themselves being more comfortable talking. I have had 3 tell me that I made them come out if their shell and helped their confidence. I have had random people tell me that they felt comfortable around mw. I wanted to ask why this could be?
It’s not a bad thing I just find it interesting.

Today I went to autism social club and met a new person. I tried to talk to one guy (imo cute) after a while I got them to open up and seeing them visibly relax was rewarding.

TL;Dr Why are shy men drawn to me? Also I like shy men?

Im 27 F and one of my fantasies is have a guy ask me to dance at a party, dance or club. I just have alwaya wanted someone to pick me in that sense

Hey I wanted to see if I can get your perspective on something. I have a really weird quirk where shy men almost always ADHD and or ASD are drawn to me. For relevancy I am autistic and ADHD. I have had this thing that Ive noticed that I bring shy men come out of their shells. My parents always say that I have a gift of making anyone talk. I have had at least 4 men in my life tell me that after they met me they felt themselves being more comfortable talking. I have had random people tell me that they felt comfortable around mw. I wanted to ask why this could be?

Hey im a first year SLPA. Im in my last week of the school year and ive have had it. I work at a school for students with disabilities its on the more moderate to severe spectrum especially since this is the most restrictive environment. I have students ages 3-22. My SLP is in her 3rd year at that school (25 years as a slp) and im the 3rd SLPA at that site Part of my responsibilities are my DSC TOP billing + writing out lesson plans with students goals, times + what I am going to do. It feels like my SLP only looks at them during progress report season and comes to me with all of the mistakes ive made but I wish she would’ve told me when the issue first appeared. Im terrified of being fired because I truly like working with the kids. I work at a mainstream school once a week and the SLP there is totally differnt. I get feedback on day of session and she reads + confirms my dstop billing same week. Relevant information I am autistic and have ADHD which I disclosed with my supervising SLP’s. Honestly im exhausted. My SLP has an energy that sucks the life out of me and the room when she enters. Im constantly terrified about her wanting to have a chat. If I get fired i dont know what Inwilk do for money. I just wish I was better at my job and Im frustrated that I feel like I cant do anything right. I know she will say to just talk to her but her demeanor is so off putting