u/Mission_Practice_846

basically I had my first 9 hour shift ever 2 days ago and after I decided to go to the gym and I got home pretty late (9 pm ish) and Ieft the house at 8 am so I'd been out for 13 hours. My parents were playing pickleball and they get home at around 11 and ask me if I want to go to this pub to get wings and so I said yes after some convincing because I have another 9 hour shift the next day and I knew I'd be tired.

I get to the pub and apparently it's actually a pickleball group meetup with 20 other people and my parents just failed to mention it. I was already tired and I really only wanted food so I was annoyed with how many people there were and when my mother asked me how I was I said "If I knew your whole group was here I would've stayed home" and I admit that was rude to say but I was being honest because I didn't have the energy to interact with all these people and stay for so long at the pub.

I get home at 1:30 am and I have a shift that day and my mom berates me saying that she raised a monster, that she's never doing anything for me again, and that im the most ungrateful child ever and she doesn't want to speak to me again.

My dad has been talking to me but my mom has just been glaring at me the whole 2 days, I don't even know what to do anymore I've been apologizing so much.

basically I (16F) have had a big crush on this girl (16F) for 3 years but she's been with a few guys the whole time. back in January we had this whole situation where she confessed she used to have a crush on me when she had a bf and whatever things were awkward for a bit but we're close friends now both single, and we're watching a lesbian movie together on Tuesday.

Her birthday is on Thursday and I want to give her a gift early because she's not having a party and i want to write her a card and then ask her out at the end of it. She's a really sappy romantic person but is this generally weird??

Basically I recently reported my bsfs boyfriend for assault--he left bruises on her, choked her kicked her and punched her but kept saying he was just fooling around and it was all a joke. He also grabbed her face, pinned her down and forcefully kissed her multiple times (only dated for a month at this point). After I reported them parents and police were called and she was forced to break up with him. I admitted to her that I was the one that reported her and she got extremely upset and even told her ex bf (at the time) that it was me, he decided to harass me and threaten me....

I know I was the one that reported her and got him in trouble but I argued with my friend because it genuinely made me upset she told her crazy ex knowing he's violent. Her argument is that he wouldn't actually try anything and its all empty threats and that she didn't do anything wrong. She also said that I should take responsibility for my actions and that its not her problem whatever happens between me and him, and I have no right to be upset. They have since gotten back together and we haven't spoken since but I'm thinking of blocking her?

I just feel bad because she's dating an abuser and I don't want anything worse to happen to her and we've been best friends for 10 years so I feel like I'm overreacting but idk I can't believe she doesn't care that her bf she has dated for a fucking month is threatening me.

We were dating for 5 months and the reason she broke up with me was because she apparently wasn't ready for a relationship, and barely a month later she has a bf?? I'm genuinely appalled I don't know how she moved on so quickly with a fucking man despite saying she was a lesbian.....

basically the 3rd time I've posted about this but since I reported him they broke up after the police were involved. the guy was constantly hitting her enough to leave bruises (but always framed it as a joke) putting her in a chokehold, biting her, and kicking her again he always said they were just fooling around.... He also pinned her down and forcefully kissed her multiple times.

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Anyway 2 days ago he was harassing me and I talked to my friend and apparently he was really pissed saying stuff like "I hope she kills her self" and saying he was going to ruin my life. My friend and I got into an argument because I was upset she told HIM her crazy ex bf that I reported him and that what happens between me and him isn't her problem and she does care. She said I blew everything out of proportion and that it really wasn't that serious so now we are no longer on speaking terms.

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Today our mutual friend just told me they're going to meet up tomorrow to reconcile and get back together and I'm just appalled because after all this she's still getting back with the shitty guy, we're not friends anymore but I'm still so worried and now I feel helpless if he does something to her again.

Basically they've only been dating for 2 months but she has multiple bruises on her legs from him punching and kicking her which she says he does as a "joke". He also constantly chokes her and when she brings it up as an issue he says he doesn't do it hard (he has told me before its one of his kinks....). Three times now he has pinned her down and forcefully kissed her while she was saying no and shaking her head and when she brought it up he made her guilty for being scared of intimacy. I want to do something because she won't listen to me and won't leave him but I don't know what I would do, if I were to tell a teacher and her parents were to find out she was dating someone they would genuinely kill her because they're abusive and they don't like her so I'm stuck because it hurts to see her like this.