AIO for waking my fiancé up for finding adult videos in his browser
Last night I found adult videos in my fiancés browser an asked him why he was watching it again, we had previously talked about how we thought it was cheating and last year the exact same thing happened. I came into the room only 5 minutes into my grocery run cause I forgot my wallet and he was watching it. I felt so betrayed and jealous and it really took a toll on my mental heath and self esteem. He promised to never do it again and last night I went through his phone cause he stopped being intimate with me and I found the adult videos. He claimed at first he didn’t do it but I told him who else could have done it on his phone, and I showed him the website link in his history and he started saying I sounded psycho because I told him that I felt betrayed and he knows how much it hurts me and he still did it. He kept going back to sleep while I was crying about it, and he kept calling me names because I said it was disgusting. Am I overreacting if I said it was disgusting and woke him up? Any advice on how to get over something like this? Also to make it clear we both said it would be cheating to watch stuff like that and he still did it.
TL:DR fiancé watched adult videos, lies about it when confronted, soon confesses and dismisses my feelings and name calls me .