I am 34M, and I have relationship with that woman that I proposed, that lasts for 3 years. I recently discovered that my fiancèe cheated on me during her solo trip to Spain with a 22 year old last summer.

Dont ask me how i knew it but the important thing is I learned the truth. Mind you this happened on her FIRST night there when she was out alone and was apparently approached by that kid. What hurt me most is that she was blaming the situation on me and that she was unhappy with the relationship because we had many fights. And for her, it was logical to cheat.

Her exact words to the kid were : i enjoyed a lot when we had sex and i didnt feel guilty or think about him and so I made sure that we cant continue. And then this : I felt like I love you long time, maybe it wouldnt be the same with another boy but this is how I felt. It was brutal for me to see these. When these events happened she was calling me on video to make sure i didnt suspect anything and I love you so much texts. They were texting all the time during her stay there .

Then when she came back to Athens Gr, she offered to SEND him money because he was unemployed and living with his parents lol, and she was asking him to visit her in Athens where we LIVE TOGETHER. Meanwhile that 20 year old was broke as fuck, unemployed, and smoked weed all day. He never came and eventually she stopped texting him because for him it was just a fun fuck with an older girl.

Its funny because i was always providing her money, helping her in difficult situations, bringing her home every night, supportive, paying the bills and because i though she loved me, I proposed her earlier this year before I knew all that. But to this child, she offered to do all that after 1 day.

I am devastated and I feel completely dissarayed. I dont know how to handle the situation, and how to confront her about this. It will be impossible to trust her again or any other girl for that matter. Any advice will be appreciated.

I am 34M, got a stable job, wealthy, always being by her side, buying gifts, helping financially and a relationship with that woman that I proposed, that lasts for 3 years. I recently discovered that my fiancèe cheated on me during her solo trip to Spain with a 22 year old last summer.

Dont ask me how i knew it but the important thing is I learned the truth. Mind you this happened on her FIRST night there when she was out alone and was apparently approached by that kid. What hurt me most is that she was blaming the situation on me and that she was unhappy with the relationship because we had many fights. And for her, it was logical to cheat.

Her exact words to the kid were : i enjoyed a lot when we had sex and i didnt feel guilty or think about him and so I made sure that we cant continue. And then this : I felt like I love you long time, maybe it wouldnt be the same with another boy but this is how I felt. It was brutal for me to see these. When these events happened she was calling me on video to make sure i didnt suspect anything and I love you so much texts. They were texting all the time during her stay there .

Then when she came back to Athens Gr, she offered to SEND him money because he was unemployed and living with his parents lol, and she was asking him to visit her in Athens where we LIVE TOGETHER. Meanwhile that 20 year old was broke as fuck, unemployed, and smoked weed all day. He never came and eventually she stopped texting him because for him it was just a fun fuck with an older girl.

Its funny because i was always providing her money, helping her in difficult situations, bringing her home every night, supportive, paying the bills and because i though she loved me, I proposed her earlier this year before I knew all that. But to this child, she offered to do all that after 1 day.

I am devastated and I feel completely dissarayed. I dont know how to handle the situation, and how to confront her about this. It will be impossible to trust her again or any other girl for that matter. Any advice will be appreciated.

I am 34M, got a stable job, wealthy, always being by her side, buying gifts, helping financially and a relationship with that woman that I proposed, that lasts for 3 years. I recently discovered that my fiancèe cheated on me during her solo trip to Spain with a 22 year old last summer.

Dont ask me how i knew it but the important thing is I learned the truth. Mind you this happened on her FIRST night there when she was out alone and was apparently approached by that kid. What hurt me most is that she was blaming the situation on me and that she was unhappy with the relationship because we had many fights. And for her, it was logical to cheat.

Her exact words to the kid were : i enjoyed a lot when we had sex and i didnt feel guilty or think about him and so I made sure that we cant continue. And then this : I felt like I love you long time, maybe it wouldnt be the same with another boy but this is how I felt. It was brutal for me to see these. When these events happened she was calling me on video to make sure i didnt suspect anything and I love you so much texts. They were texting all the time during her stay there .

Then when she came back to Athens Gr, she offered to SEND him money because he was unemployed and living with his parents lol, and she was asking him to visit her in Athens where we LIVE TOGETHER. Meanwhile that 20 year old was broke as fuck, unemployed, and smoked weed all day. He never came and eventually she stopped texting him because for him it was just a fun fuck with an older girl.

Its funny because i was always providing her money, helping her in difficult situations, bringing her home every night, supportive, paying the bills and because i though she loved me, I proposed her earlier this year before I knew all that. But to this child, she offered to do all that after 1 day.

I am devastated and I feel completely dissarayed. I dont know how to handle the situation, and how to confront her about this. It will be impossible to trust her again or any other girl for that matter. Any advice will be appreciated.