u/MoonlitEarthWanderer

I'm 28, and I've been unsure about gender for quite some time. I've been exploring a few labels recently. Bigender, genderflux, demigirl. Nothing seemed 100%. But I just came across librafeminine... and I think it might be the one.

Basically I'm a woman and I'm agender, but my agenderness comes from spirituality. I'm a nondualist, so I believe separation is an illusion (everything is an illusion, for that matter), everything is one, and that oneness is obviously genderless because everything is an illusion.

So, given that, I feel that my truth is agender. But I am very much living in this material illusion, I am currently perceiving through the lens of human experience... so, at the same time, I feel connected to my womanhood. I love my womanhood, it feels so real to me yet I recognise that it's not and I'm agender.

I realise my reason for feeling agender is perhaps a bit unusual. For that reason, maybe there isn't an existing label that is 100% right. I don't like just saying "non-binary" because that makes people see neither my womaness nor my agenderness; they see me as a third gender or they see me as somewhere between a man and a woman, which obviously isn't right (I know this comes from a misunderstanding of non-binary and that non-binary actually means anything that's not 100% man or 100% woman 100% of the time, but it's their perception nonetheless).

While my reasons for feeling agender are potentially rare (idk, does anyone else feel agender for a similar reason?), it seems to me that librafeminine is the closest existing label. I think I might feel more connected to womanhood compared to some librafeminine people in terms of percentages (honestly it's hard to put a percentage on it. It's just both. Maybe it fluctuates, maybe it doesn't), but that connection comes with the feeling that it's an illusion and that agender is my truth. I should note that identifying as agender alone doesn't quite work for me because that connection to womanhood is very much there, even if I believe it to be an illusion.

What do you think?

Hello! Friendly Devon maid here (please don't roast me too hard, I love you guys 😭). My family is from all over the Westcountry, not just Devon, and I've been teaching myself a bit of Cornish recently to deepen my connection to the land. I wanted to learn a Brittonic langauge, and I chose Kernewek because it's the closest to home and, as I said, my family is from all over. It's a beautiful language. ANYWAY, to the Kernewek speakers, is there a way to say "Devonian" in Kernewek? If not, is there a logical way to put that word together that would make sense? I'm attempting to write a poem in Kernewek about the Westcounty, and I want to talk about "Cornish seas" and "Devonian hills", and also "Devonian" as in people (just in case that would be different).

Meur ras ♥️

Hello, Cornwall. Friendly Devon maid here (please don't roast me too hard, I love you guys 😭). My family is from all over the Westcountry, not just Devon, and I've been teaching myself a bit of Cornish recently to deepen my connection to the land. I wanted to learn a Brittonic langauge, and I chose Kernewek because it's the closest to home and, as I said, my family is from all over. It's a beautiful language. ANYWAY, to the Kernewek speakers, is there a way to say "Devonian" in Kernewek? If not, is there a logical way to put that word together that would make sense? I'm attempting to write a poem in Kernewek about the Westcounty, and I want to talk about "Cornish seas" and "Devonian hills", and also "Devonian" as in people (just in case that would be different).

Meur ras ♥️

Hii, so I simultaneously feel like I'm a woman and I'm agender. Both feel entirely whole, though there can be a bit of fluctuation in which one dominates. Even then though, neither feel partial. They both feel whole, it's just like one has taken a step in front of the other.

Is bigender right? I've been looking into this, demigirl, and genderflux... and I'm not sure.

Hiii, which of those do you think my experience sounds closest to?

I'm both a woman and agender at the same time. There can be a bit of fluctuation in terms of what dominates, but both feel entirely whole even when one feels more dominant.

That wholeness is what makes me feel demigirl isn't quite right. Genderflux seems like it doesn't account for me feeling them both simultaneously. Bigender could be right, but I'm not sure if it counts if it's a gender pared with no gender.

What do you think fits best? 🤣✨️♥️

Hi everyone. Help me out a bit. I'm AFAB. Sometimes I feel wholly and entirely a woman, and I love it. But sometimes I feel genderless. Sometimes I feel a bit of both to different degrees.

I'm aware of the terms genderflux and girlflux, but I'm not sure if my experience fits them because of the reason that I sometimes feel genderless. It's not social, nor is it physical. I'm a very spiritual person, and I'm a nondualist. So for me, my current life is a temporary expression and, really, everything is one and (of course) genderless. It's such a big part of my life that it really does make me feel genderless sometimes. Then sometimes fully a woman, and sometimes between.

So what I'm wondering is if the labels apply to me in this instance. I'm ace and bi, so I've spent a lot of time in queer spaces... but I've never met anyone with a similar experience to this. Would it be inappropriate for me to identify with these labels? Do they still apply in my instance? Would you feel like I was hijacking a label not meant for me if I used them?

Just a Devon maid tryna decolonise my very broad "Celtic Paganism". Thank yooooou ❤️