Taylor Swift Did Not Invite Blake Lively to Travis Kelce Wedding: Where They Stand After Falling Out (exclusive source)
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Taylor Swift Did Not Invite Blake Lively to Travis Kelce Wedding: Where They Stand After Falling Out (exclusive source)

Pretty much what has been reported already, but with some new quotes from “insider sources.”

Multiple sources have confirmed to Us Weekly that Swift’s once-close friend Blake Lively did not receive an invitation to the pair’s nuptials.

“Blake understands why she wouldn’t be invited and that it would be a media frenzy,” an insider exclusively tells Us Weekly. “She also understands that she and Taylor don’t have the same level of friendship they once had. She isn’t upset about not being invited, but of course, she would love to be there to support her and Travis.”

The insider adds that Lively is “at peace” with how things “played out” between her and Swift, noting that the Gossip Girlalum has “put that chapter behind her.” Still, the friends are taking space from each other.

They haven’t been in touch in several months, and their last correspondence was only a few casual texts back and forth,” the insider concludes. “That is the extent of their friendship.”

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u/More_Midnight3634 — 10 days ago
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VANZAN: The Lawsuit That Vanished, And The Questions That Didn't - A Cooperative Deep Dive with u/DogMom1970s

^(Buckle up, buttercup, this shall be looooong. But so worth it!)

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^(Authors’ Note:  The issues discussed in this post are not presented proof of liability or definitive conclusions regarding any individual or entity. Rather, they are merely our opinions, questions, circumstances and areas of concern that critics (like us believe warrant further scrutiny based on publicly available filings, timelines and source materials.  Reasonable people can (and do disagree about what Vanzan ultimately means.)))

^(Readers are encouraged to review all source materials and draw their own conclusions.)

With the upcoming Jones vs. Able case and Wallace v. Lively appeal, u/DogMom1970s and I wanted to revisit one of the strangest, most controversial side stories in this litigation ecosystem: VANZAN!

Over the last year, it has been called many things:

  • VanSham
  • ShamZan
  • A discovery vehicle
  • Subpoena scheme
  • An "internet conspiracy"

Whatever label people prefer, the reason this issue refuses to die is simple:

  • A short-lived Doe lawsuit was filed by Vanzan in NY state court
  • A broad subpoena followed
  • Private communications were obtained
  • The Vanzan lawsuit was promptly withdrawn prior to any judicial oversight
  • Many of the questions surrounding the lawsuit and subpoena remain unanswered

The sequence alone does not prove misconduct.  However, what it does create is a remarkable number of unanswered questions that continue to draw scrutiny from attorneys, legal commentators and court-watchers even after the central Lively vs. Wayfarer Parties lawsuit settled.

📣 Why Are We Still Talking About Vanzan?

People can disagree about what the Vanzan lawsuit and subpoena ultimately mean.  What is much harder to dispute is the sheer volume of red flags it generates:

🚩 The lawsuit was filed as a Doe action despite New York authorities repeatedly emphasizing due diligence requirements before relying on Doe procedures.

🚩 The subpoena sought far more than simply identifying unknown defendants.

🚩 The information requested is difficult to reconcile with the stated purpose of the lawsuit.

🚩 The lawsuit was voluntarily withdrawn without judicial oversight and before questions surrounding the subpoena could be fully explored.

🚩 The dubious timing places the lawsuit, subpoena, CRD complaint and NYT article in remarkable proximity.

🚩 The discovery fight surrounding Vanzan generated unusually intense resistance by Lively’s legal team despite its potential relevance to the broader litigation claims and issues.

🚩 Questions remain regarding the various Vanzan entities, corporate formalities, ownership structures and who ultimately benefited from the Vanzan lawsuit.

🚩 The privacy implications extend far beyond Jennifer Abel and potentially involve communications belonging to numerous third parties.

🚩 Attorneys, legal commentators and court-watchers continue returning to Vanzan and many hope to see more come out during the Jones vs. Able case.

None of these points independently prove misconduct.   Taken together, however, they help explain why Vanzan remains one of the most debated issues arising from the litigation.

Some readers may wonder whether the May 2026 settlement agreement between Lively and the Wayfarer Parties makes Vanzan irrelevant.   We do not believe it does.

The settlement resolved claims between the settling parties. It did not answer the underlying questions surrounding Vanzan's structure, the subpoena, the information obtained through that subpoena, the entity's corporate history or the procedural issues that continue to generate debate. 

📅 The Timeline

The timing is one of the reasons people keep coming back to Vanzan.  Standing alone, each event may appear unremarkable. Viewed collectively, however, the sequence raises obvious questions.

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Whether you view these events as coincidence or something more significant, the timeline places Vanzan squarely in the middle of several major developments.

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⚠️ WHY THIS MATTERS ⚠️

None of these events, viewed in isolation, necessarily establish anything improper. Critics nevertheless point to the compressed timeline because the Vanzan lawsuit, subpoena activity, CRD complaint and subsequent publication of the NYT article occurred within a remarkably short period of time. Whether that sequence reflects coincidence, strategy or something else remains a matter of debate. 

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🚩 Red Flag #1:  What Was The Vanzan Lawsuit Actually For?

One of the central questions surrounding Vanzan is whether the lawsuit was designed to accomplish what the subpoena ultimately did.

Critics argue that the information sought through the subpoena appears difficult to reconcile with the claims asserted in the lawsuit itself.

Vanzan Lawsuit (Summons with Notice)

They point to the breadth of the subpoena, the missing relevance of the sought information to the filed claims, the timing of the lawsuit and the lawsuit's eventual withdrawal as reasons for skepticism.

Some legal commentators have also questioned whether Vanzan was relying on the appropriate procedural mechanism to obtain discovery. They note that New York provides multiple established avenues for identifying unknown defendants and obtaining and obtaining information before litigation proceeds. They frequently point to Bumpus v. New York City Transit Authority, where the court observed that "at least four procedural mechanisms" may be available depending on the circumstances.   The critics contend that the availability of these alternative procedures makes Vanzan's chosen approach difficult to understand and raises additional questions about why the lawsuit was structured the way it was. 

In simple terms, critics argue that New York already provides established ways to identify unknown defendants, which raises questions about why Vanzan chose this approach.

Supporters disagree and maintain that the lawsuit was a legitimate effort to identify responsible parties and obtain relevant information.

Regardless of where one lands on that debate, the disconnect between the lawsuit and the information sought (and ultimately obtained) through the subpoena remains one of the central questions surrounding Vanzan.  Notably, the subsequent settlement between Lively and the Wayfarer Parties did not resolve the procedural questions raised by the structure of the Vanzan lawsuit itself.

Those questioning the disconnect point to the breadth of the subpoena, the timing of the lawsuit and the lawsuit's eventual withdrawal. The key timeline points include:

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⚠️ WHY THIS MATTERS ⚠️

The legitimacy of any lawsuit depends, in part, on whether legal procedures are being used for their intended purposes, according to “the full array of legal, procedural, and evidentiary rules governing the process by which a court adjudicates the merits of a dispute” (Liman, 47.1 Order). Critics argue that Vanzan raises questions about whether that occurred here.

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🚩 Red Flag #2: What Did The Subpoena Really Request?

One reason Vanzan attracts scrutiny is that the subpoena sought far more than simply identifying unknown defendants.

The scope of the subpoena is important because it informs the broader debate about whether the lawsuit was serving the purpose contemplated by New York's Doe-defendant procedures.

Critics argue that identifying unknown defendants generally requires a relatively narrow set of information. They contend that portions of the Vanzan subpoena are directed toward obtaining much broader communications and materials rather than simply determining identity. 

Supporters disagree and maintain the requests were reasonably related to the claims being investigated. 

Readers are encouraged to review the subpoena itself and draw their own conclusions.

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⚠️ WHY THIS MATTERS ⚠️

If the subpoena sought information far beyond identifying unknown defendants, critics argue it becomes more important to understand why the information was requested and how it was ultimately used.

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🚩 Red Flag #3: NY’s Stance on Doe Lawsuits

One of the most important legal questions raised by Vanzan comes from New York's own statutes and caselaw governing Doe-defendant lawsuits.

At the center of that discussion is CPLR 1024, a New York rule that allows plaintiffs to proceed against known, but, despite reasonable efforts, unidentified defendants. The rule exists to prevent legitimate claims from being lost simply because a plaintiff does not yet know the name of the responsible party, and the statute of limitations would otherwise run out.  Think of it this way: Doe lawsuits are intended to help identify a real but unnamed defendant. They are not designed to provide a shortcut around the normal safeguards that govern discovery.

New York courts have repeatedly emphasized that Doe procedures are not without limits.

Authority frequently cited in discussions of Vanzan include:

  • Bumpus v. NYC Transit Authority
  • McKinney's CPLR 1024 Practice Commentaries
  • Henderson-Jones v. City of New York (discussing due diligence requirements under CPLR 1024 before relying on John Doe procedures).
  • Walker v. GlaxoSmithKline, LLC (addressing the consequences of failing to satisfy CPLR 1024's due diligence requirements).
  • Other Doe-defendant decisions interpreting CPLR 1024 and the diligence requirements for identifying unknown defendants before invoking John Doe procedures.

Readers interested in a deeper discussion of Doe lawsuits may find content creator Kassidy’s video helpful.

Across these authorities, several recurring themes emerge:

  • Plaintiffs are expected to exercise due diligence before relying on Doe procedures.
  • Doe procedures serve a specific and limited purpose: allowing a case to proceed while an otherwise identifiable defendant's identity is still being determined.
  • New York provides other mechanisms for obtaining information when appropriate, before relying on Doe procedures.
  • Procedural safeguards exist to protect privacy and prevent unnecessary discovery in Doe lawsuits.
  • The court must be able to determine, based on the pleadings, if they have jurisdiction over the unnamed defendant(s)

In simple terms, New York's Doe procedures are designed to help identify a real but yet unnamed defendant and allow the court to establish jurisdiction over the unnamed defendant, not eliminate the safeguards that normally accompany discovery.  A classic example would be a plaintiff who knows and can prove that a specific wrongdoer exists, such as the person behind a particular IP address stealing electronic data but does not yet know that person's identity. 

Critics argue that the Vanzan subpoena and the information sought appear difficult to reconcile with the limited purpose contemplated by New York's Doe-defendant framework. They point to the vague, unspecific description of the defendants, the breadth of the subpoena, the timing of the lawsuit and the existence of alternative procedural mechanisms discussed in cases such as Bumpus.   Supporters disagree and maintain that the lawsuit was a legitimate effort to identify responsible parties and obtain relevant information.

Ultimately, the debate is not whether Doe procedures were used.  The debate is whether they were used in the manner New York intended them to be used.

That is why one question continues to surface:  If New York already provides mechanisms for identifying known but yet unnamed defendants and conducting pre-action discovery, why was Vanzan structured the way it was?

Importantly, the settlement agreement between Lively and the Wayfarer Parties did not result in any judicial determination regarding whether Vanzan satisfied the requirements of CPLR 1024. Those questions remain unanswered.

That question remains at the center of the controversy.

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⚠️ WHY THIS MATTERS ⚠️

Doe procedures are powerful tools. NY imposes safeguards for a reason.  The central question raised by Vanzan is whether those safeguards were respected.

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🚩 Red Flag #4: Jennifer Abel's Right to Privacy

Even setting aside every procedural dispute, Vanzan raises a broader question:  What protections exist when private communications are obtained through litigation tools?

Much of the discussion understandably focuses on Jennifer Abel, but the potential privacy implications extend far beyond Abel herself.

If a phone contains communications involving dozens or hundreds of people, those communications may include:

  • Family members
  • Friends
  • Journalists
  • Attorneys
  • Clients
  • Business contacts
  • Unrelated third parties

This is a long list of potential third parties who never anticipated becoming connected to litigation.

Ownership of a device is not necessarily the same thing as ownership of the information stored on it.  Nor does possession of a device automatically eliminate all privacy interests associated with communications contained on it.

For that reason, many observers view Vanzan not merely as a subpoena dispute, but as a significant privacy issue with implications extending well beyond the parties themselves.

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⚠️ WHY THIS MATTERS ⚠️

The issue extends beyond Jennifer Able.  Modern phones contain years of communications involving countless third parties who never expect their private conversations to become part of a legal dispute.

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🚩 Red Flag #5: Who Was Really Behind Vanzan

The subpoena is what initially drew attention to Vanzan.  The corporate records are what caused many observers to keep digging.  Because the underlying Vanzan lawsuit disappeared without judicial scrutiny, many observers turned to the corporate records themselves to understand who was behind the entity and how it operated.

One of the most common reactions to discussions about Vanzan is: "Who cares if the company paperwork was messy?"   The answer is simple.

The entire purpose of forming a separate legal entity, such as a corporation, is to establish a legal entity that is separate from the individuals behind it. That separation can provide significant protections and benefits. In exchange, the entity is expected to operate as a genuine business with its own governance, records, management structure and legal formalities.

That is why corporate housekeeping matters. In simple terms, corporate housekeeping refers to the routine steps necessary to maintain a company as a legitimate and independent legal entity. This includes keeping required filings current, maintaining records, documenting changes in management and complying with state reporting requirements. These obligations may seem mundane and simply administrative, but they are part of what demonstrates that a company is operating as a real business rather than merely existing on paper.

And that is why the Vanzan records attracted so much attention.

As community members began examining the various Vanzan entities, they identified what they believed were significant questions involving:

  • Entity status and compliance
  • Business registrations
  • Management authority
  • Ownership structures
  • Relationships among multiple Vanzan entities
  • Relationships between those entities and the individuals associated with them
  • Corporate housekeeping and recordkeeping practices

Viewed collectively, these issues paint a picture critics find very difficult to ignore:   Who was actually operating Vanzan and for whose benefit was it operating?

That question matters because many of the issues identified by sleuths overlap with factors courts frequently examine when deciding whether a company was truly operating as an independent business rather than simply acting on behalf of the people behind it.

To be clear, no court has made any finding that Vanzan was improperly structured or operated.  Nor are we suggesting that any particular legal outcome is predetermined.

What we are saying is that the questions raised by the entity's corporate housekeeping, recordkeeping practices and governance go well beyond technical filing errors. They go directly to ownership, control, management and whether the entity was consistently operating as a genuinely separate business.

For many observers, those questions ultimately became more significant than the subpoena itself.

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⚠️ WHY THIS MATTERS ⚠️

The subpoena raised questions about what Vanzan obtained.  The corporate records raised questions about who was really behind Vanzan.  For many observers, the second question became the more important one.

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🚩 Red Flag #6: Vanzan's Cleanup Timing Problem

Businesses update records.

Businesses fix filing errors.

Businesses perform administrative housekeeping every day.

None of those facts are inherently suspicious.

What attracted attention in the case of Vanzan was not simply that changes were made, but when those changes appeared to occur.

According to critics, several of the issues identified in public records did not arise overnight. Rather, they appeared to reflect deficiencies that had existed long before the Vanzan lawsuit was filed and long before anyone outside a small group of people were paying attention to the entity.  One fact that attracted particular attention was Vanzan's New York filing history. Public records indicate that the entity was formed in 2019 but did not file a biennial statement until June 30, 2025.

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In simple terms, a biennial statement is a routine filing that New York requires companies to submit every two years to keep basic information about the entity current.

Public records indicate that Vanzan was formed in 2019 but did not file a biennial statement until June 30, 2025. This means the entity went years without making required biennial filings before eventually updating its records (and only after public scrutiny intensified).  For many, this raised a broader concern. The entity may have continued to exist legally, but critics questioned whether a company that had fallen behind on basic state filing requirements should have been invoking the authority of the New York courts while its own records remained out of date.

The significance was not the filing itself. Companies file overdue paperwork all the time.

The significance was the timing.

What many observers found difficult to ignore was the sequence that followed:

  • The Vanzan subpoena became public.
  • Sleuths and legal commentators began examining Vanzan's corporate records more closely.
  • Questions regarding the Vanzan lawsuit quickly expanded into questions regarding the entity itself.
  • Public discussions began focusing on Vanzan's history – including its governance and compliance as well as its recordkeeping practices.
  • Subsequent corporate filing updates seemingly addressed some of the issues being discussed.

Critics note that the matters being addressed in the new filing appeared to have existed long before the lawsuit was filed. That is what transformed the discussion from routine corporate housekeeping into a debate about timing and accountability.

One example frequently cited involves Vanzan's New York biennial filings. According to public records, Ryan Reynolds filed a biennial statement for Vanzan on June 30, 2025, the first biennial statement filed since the entity's formation in 2019 (meaning it missed multiple filings that were due in 2021, 2023 and 2025).

The later appearance of Ryan Reynolds as CEO in the June 2025 filing also generated additional questions regarding control of the entity and would later become intertwined with disputes concerning Vanzan discovery and depositions.

See this interesting theory from u/Jellygator0.

Standing alone, a late filing does not establish wrongdoing.

What attracted attention was the broader context.

Researchers had already spent months discussing what they believed were deficiencies in Vanzan's corporate housekeeping, including missed filings, compliance concerns and questions regarding the entity's governance. The June 2025 filing therefore appeared to many observers not as an isolated administrative update, but as part of a broader effort to address issues that had already become the subject of public scrutiny.

Again, businesses update records all the time.

The question raised by critics was not whether changes occurred.  Instead, it was why those changes appeared to occur only after scrutiny intensified rather than before.

Critics argue that an entity seeking to invoke the authority of the courts should ensure its own corporate affairs are in order before filing suit, not well after questions begin to surface.

That sequence generated several recurring questions:

  • Why were these deficiencies not addressed before the Vanzan lawsuit was filed?
  • Why did corrective filings appear only after the public began examining the entity?
  • Who was responsible for maintaining Vanzan's corporate records?
  • Why did years of apparent inactivity suddenly give way to a series of updates?
  • What role, if any, did public scrutiny play in those changes?

None of these questions establish wrongdoing. They do, however, help explain why scrutiny of Vanzan expanded beyond the subpoena itself and into the entity's corporate structure, governance and operations.

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⚠️ WHY THIS MATTERS ⚠️

The issue is not that changes were made.   The issue is when and to what extent they were made.  For critics, the sequence raises a simple question: Why did meaningful cleanup appear to occur only after the public started looking and raising questions?

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🚩 Red Flag #7: The Discovery Fight

The Vanzan discovery fight was never simply about curiosity.  The parties seeking discovery were attempting to understand:

  • Who was behind Vanzan
  • Why the lawsuit was filed
  • How the subpoena came about
  • What materials were obtained through the subpoena and by whom
  • Whether those materials influenced later litigation or public narratives
  • Whether the lawsuit was serving a legitimate litigation purpose

In other words, the parties were not merely asking questions about a subpoena. They were attempting to understand the broader chain of events surrounding Vanzan and what ultimately happened to the information it obtained.

One of the reasons Vanzan continues to generate interest is that discovery concerning the entity was fought so aggressively. 

Rather than simply producing Lively or Reynolds, Vanzan ultimately designated a corporate representative to testify on behalf of the entity. 

That distinction became increasingly important as questions centering on ownership, control, management of the flow of information from the subpoena through Vanzan continued to evolve.  Later corporate filings identified Ryan Reynolds as CEO of a Vanzan entity. At the same time, questions persisted regarding who controlled Vanzan, who directed its activities and what ultimately happened to the information obtained through the subpoena.  

Critics pointed to allegations that materials obtained through the subpoena ultimately made their way beyond Vanzan itself.   Whether those allegations are ultimately substantiated remains disputed.

What is not disputed is that discovery represented one of the few opportunities to understand how the various individuals, entities and information flows fit together.  In many ways, discovery was one of the few mechanisms available to test competing explanations for what Vanzan was, who controlled it and what happened to the information it obtained.

One of the most persistent questions surrounding Vanzan is simple:   If the entity's role was straightforward, why was discovery regarding that role fought so aggressively?

The more difficult it became to obtain answers, the more attention the underlying questions received.  With the broad releases included in the settlement agreement between Lively and the Wayfarer Parties, some of the paths that might have shed additional light on Vanzan may never be fully explored.

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⚠️ WHY THIS MATTERS ⚠️

Discovery fights often reveal which issues the parties themselves consider important. The harder Vanzan became to investigate, the more attention it attracted.

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What We Still Don't Know

The May 2026 settlement agreement resolved litigation claims between Lively and the Wayfarer Parties. It did not, however, answer many of the factual questions surrounding Vanzan, including:

  • Who conceived the Vanzan lawsuit?
  • Who funded it?
  • Who directed it?
  • Why did Vanzan seek discovery rather than Lively or Reynolds individually?
  • Why was the lawsuit voluntarily dismissed?
  • How did information obtained through Vanzan allegedly make its way beyond Vanzan itself if the entity was acting independently?
  • Who received materials obtained through the subpoena?
  • What role, if any, did those materials play in later events?
  • Why was discovery concerning Vanzan fought so aggressively?

These questions continue to attract attention because they remain unanswered.

The discussion surrounding Vanzan persists not because people are unwilling to move on, but because the underlying questions have never fully gone away.

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Bottom Line

Vanzan is not just a story about a subpoena or someone being unsure who to add as defendant.

It is a story about the appropriate use of Doe-defendant lawsuits, the scope of subpoena power, privacy rights, corporate transparency and the unanswered questions that remain after the lawsuit itself disappeared.

Reasonable people can disagree about what the facts ultimately show.  The subsequent settlement resolved claims between Lively and the Wayfarer Parties.  It did not resolve the questions raised by Vanzan. 

The settlement closed the Lively vs. Wayfarer Party litigation. It did not close the questions.

That is why Vanzan continues to attract scrutiny.  And that is why we believe it deserves far more attention than a dismissive wave of the hand or a claim that it is merely "internet noise."

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Further Reading

For readers interested in forming their own conclusions, the following Reddit posts provide additional context, filings, timelines and analysis.

📄 Primary Source Materials

The Actual Vanzan Subpoena

Timeline and Background

⚖️ CPLR 1024, Doe Lawsuits and Due Diligence

Bumpus and Related Authorities

Why CPLR 1024 Matters

Vanzan v. Does Analysis

Jones v. Does vs. Vanzan v. Does – Failures at applying CPLR 1024

🔎 The Discovery Fight / Corporate Representative Issues

Motion to Compel and Discovery Disputes

Corporate Structure and Control Theories

📱 Privacy Issues and Jennifer Abel's Phone

Jones v. Abel Privacy Discussion

🏢 Corporate Structure, Housekeeping and Veil Piercing

Early Corporate Housekeeping Analysis

Alter Ego / Veil Piercing Discussions – Comments from u/DogMom1970s

🎥 Attorney Commentary & Additional Analysis

🍷Further Juice to Read

**Readers are encouraged to review these materials and draw their own conclusions**

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u/More_Midnight3634 — 16 days ago

Looks like prep work for a Lively and Swift reunion

It’s so obvious that Blake and Taylor are still friends. You don’t have to do staged pap walks to be friends. Nathan’s smear machine was funded by scooter. Explain exactly why Taylor wouldn’t support Blake taking it down?

Going out together now, would just give the press a reason to bring up that fool and his band of morons.

Taylor showed her alliance with Blake with her album. She let her music speak for herself.

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u/More_Midnight3634 — 21 days ago
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NYT only offers option to say ‘not interested in Justin’ for articles but not Blake

The NYT after their online headline about Justin forced to pay Blake’s legal fees offers a feedback option. You can only explicitly say not interested in Justin. I chose their bottom feedback option and asked why they did not offer an option to say not interested in Blake.

u/InterestingTry5190 — 21 days ago
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Town Hall Tuesday #3

#Welcome to Town Hall Tuesday!

Town Hall Tuesday exists to give everyone a direct line to the mod team — a space to voice concerns, ask questions, and hear updates on issues that came up over the week. As always, the floor is open beyond what's covered below, and if there are topics you'd like addressed in a future Town Hall, we'd love to hear them. Please keep in mind that feedback is key to improvement and while constructive criticism is welcome, pure bashing will not be entertained. If taken too far mod discretion will be used and those comments might be redirected to modmail if needed.

This week we're tackling some questions that have come up recently.

#1. Why do mods remain anonymous?

A bit of context first: more than half of the current mod team has been here for a while, collectively averaging about eight months together, with others added as the sub grew and needed more support.

From the very beginning, mods have faced harassment, been followed off-platform, and dealt with sustained attacks. We've had mods abruptly delete their accounts and disappear from Reddit entirely, and others step down by relentless coordinated pressure. That is the reality of modding this sub. It's a voluntary commitment to this community, but it has come at a serious personal cost, which is why, over time, anonymity became not just reasonable but necessary.

That cost has only grown. We are all long-time members of this community. We are committed to showing up for it and helping it thrive, and mod anonymity is what makes that sustainable.

#2. Why the stricter rules lately?

To be direct: this sub has faced accusations of brigading other communities and of being too permissive when it comes to inter-sub drama. Whatever any of us thinks about the intent behind those accusations, protecting the sub has to come first. The new rules are proactive safeguards, not an attempt to police opinions, but to interrupt cycles of hostility that make this space worse for everyone.

#3. Can you walk us through some of the rules?

Happy to. Here are the most relevant ones:

Snark, not harassment. Harassment is one of the most commonly reported behaviors, so we want to be clear about where the line is. Snark, jokes, memes, light ribbing, and criticism of people's actions and decisions are all fair game, that's part of what this sub is. What isn't allowed: abusive language toward other members or private individuals, attacks on physical characteristics someone can't change, or targeting public figures for things outside their control. This has always been the standard here; we're just stating it plainly.

No posts about other users or other subreddits. To avoid accusations of brigading and keep inter-sub drama out of this space, we're asking everyone to stop discussing other subreddits altogether. Don't disparage, call out, or attack other communities or their mod teams.

You may notice other subs crossposting or mocking our content. We do not respond in kind. Practically, this means: please don't name, link, or reference other subreddits; please don't post screenshots of other Reddit users without removing identifying information; and don't call out specific Redditors by name.

Bring mod concerns to modmail or Town Hall. This isn't a standalone rule, it's woven into all of them. For the safety of the sub, we ask that feedback and concerns about moderation come to us directly through modmail or here during Town Hall. We genuinely want to hear from you, and we take that feedback seriously.


#Final Thoughts

Above all, we want this to stay a place people are genuinely excited to be part of — somewhere to dig into the litigation, connect with others, and have real conversations. Your input helps us keep improving.

The floor is yours.


##Previous posts:

📌Town Hall Tuesday: Updated rules

📌Community Guidelines & Victoria Burke megathread

u/More_Midnight3634 — 25 days ago
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Is Someone Backing The Lively Grifters Or Do They Know Too Many Secrets? How Is This Couple Still Owning The Mainstream Narrative?

So we keep saying the livelies are powerful couple, but where do they get their power from?

With a stalemate career, Blake has well always depended on Ryan. 1.5 years after blakes crd complaint, we now know everything about this couple. And the problem is:

- Ryan's finished movies aren't getting released

- He is taking supporting role in future deadpool movies, his biggest usp

- All of blake and ryans business venture have seen a decline owing to the fact that couple contnues to gaslight the publoc and hasn't once taken accountability for their actions.

- blake doesmt have a single offer after IEWU, except paul feig who might offer her A SIMPLE FAVOR 3, but not sure anyone will watch that

- Everyone knows about blake and ryan's playbook to take over a movie, which apparently can also be used to steal the authorship of a law!

- they dont have money to pay their contractors or apparently their lawyers as well, otherwise why would they keep begging for money through their '1000' sanctions..

What's strange is despite the fact that everyone seemingly is aware of blake and ryans true nature, how is leslie sloan still able to instruct journalists from People, The Hollywood Reporter and Deadline and more?!

Kjersti shared an interesting insight in one of her videos where she explained why these media houses continied to support this couple. Its because they need the ads from the companies they are still affiliated with. But it doesn't seem enough.

What do you guys think?

u/More_Midnight3634 — 29 days ago
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Victoria Burke 47.1 Work

This letter written by Victoria Burke to a legislative committee shares her story as the architect of the 47.1 law and WHY it was created. She is working to get implemented in other states and shame no one in MSM has brought her story to light and true INTENT of this law.

Since posting - Burke is featured as a guest on Megyn Kelly via YouTube Burke Interview 6/2

u/Friendly_Bus3554 — 1 month ago
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Strangers by Belle Burden (NYT mentioned)

I’ve been listening to Strangers by Belle Burden on Audible, and toward the end she talks about the process of publishing her Modern Love essay in the NYT called “Was I Married to a Stranger?” (The essay was published first, before she later expanded the story into the full memoir/book.)

Belle (the author) starts talking about how cautious the Modern Love editor was before publication. She explains that once the essay was finished, the editor told her she would need to show it to her ex-husband and get his reaction. The editor told her that his response would be “the beginning of the process, not the end.” In this exchange, the editor describes her piece as "your (Belle's) account".

Belle assumes her husband will obviously say absolutely not. Although he can't contest the factual details, he will likely object to the piece as a whole and the NYT will drop her article because the NYT will not risk a lawsuit, especially when the subject was a wealthy man and former lawyer. When she told the editor they were at an impasse because she couldn’t realistically elicit a response from him, the editor said they understood, but they wouldn’t change their process.

I was literally washing dishes and stopped - I listened, then went back and listened to it again to make sure I wasn't hearing things, lol. Obviously the situation w/Baldoni is a bit different, but I was struck by how aware the NYT can be of the legal and ethical complexities involved in publishing deeply personal allegations about another person.

The contrast between:

  • carefully framing a memoir-style divorce essay as one person’s subjective experience
  • insisting on obtaining the subject’s reaction before publication
  • and recognizing that the response could fundamentally alter the editorial process

Compare that to what they did with the NYT hit piece. HOW DID THIS EVER PASS LEGAL?!?!

Dear WP legal team - if you're reading this, we the people demand answers! (Pretty pleeeeaase!!!) We need the truth behind Vanzan and how it was ultimately used by the NYT to write a textbook example of a defamation article.

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u/More_Midnight3634 — 1 month ago

Lively planned this for months which means they were begging her to settle for months.

This was timed perfect because she had the power and she wielded it beautifully.

And where is that guy? Idk even Family Guy thinks he is AI.

u/More_Midnight3634 — 2 months ago
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I know this isn’t the official MET Gala insta, but we do know she wasn’t invited, because the MET released the official guest list weeks ago. So how does one gain access if they are not invited? By paying. She paid to attend.

u/ConstantPurpose2419 — 2 months ago
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  1. She walked the carpet alone- no Ryan, no handlers, PR people or even assistants to help her get up the stairs

  2. In her interview, you could tell she's doing what she does best- talk about herself and her pretty things. She did seem like she was being overly nice. Her personality seemed different - not the smug , cocky, mean girl but a "shy baby deer" . Her voice was shaky and you could tell she rehearsed the "my kids painted the items on my purse" line to come off as the sweet innocent mother that her and Ryan have been playing for weeks. She said she was "nervous" . As a former co chair and literal "queen of the Met" , she would have no reason to be nervous. Other than she KNOWS she's cancelled and she KNOWS people don't want to talk to her right now. She put herself in this situation?

  3. Mentally she seems unwell. Also, she's always had a beautiful body but she looked a little gaunt in her arms and face. I have no doubt she's gone through some tough emotions but ... Then I remember .. she did this to herself

  4. She legit just settled this lawsuit 2 hours ago?! What was she thinking?! Please..I want to know

u/More_Midnight3634 — 2 months ago