Sadly if I find a cure I don't think I will share it due to how nasty people are
Basically the title. I have frequently been trying to help others for over 10 years as I consider myself partially improved by a few things (not cured, but some things helped me in that time).
I just find the amount of nasty and sarcastic people in these UARS groups (FB, here, others) to make me never want to share a cure if/once I figure it out.
I get it. We sleep bad. So do I. I don't need to be nasty though just because I am fatigued or suffer.
It seems even a kind comment trying to help someone with my experience gets met with sarcasm or nasty replies about "Obviously I did that already" or "you're just saying what my doctor said" or "you think I never tried that?" Or "you're making this about my weight and minimizing my sleep issue like doctors do, what's your issue???" when someone talks about being super obese and I kindly and sensitively share my story of gaining 25 pounds and that screwing up my sleep leading to me being riddled with anxiety and bedbound, in an effort to help them realise that weight can definitely worsen sleep (because many people genuinely do not know or consider it) and might be the key to their issue getting so much worse in the first place.
Because all this time I have just wanted to help myself and everyone else get out of sleep disordered breathing hell.
I just get nasty sarcastic replies so often I actually quit posting here and FB until today, when I came to check something and I shared an experience for the first time in a year and got another nasty reply in minutes.
So honestly...think before you write. I have seen so many people asking for success stories, and I have known a few people who also refused to share their success here. I used to think they were being extreme until I saw how people act towards me. Your attitude and need to get offended or mad over everything could impact your future and your health and life if someone figures out something that works and doesn't come back to tell you about it, because I certainly won't. What if that person you snapped at today, finds a solution that also could've helped you and doesn't come back to ever share it?