u/Motor_Plan903

I have a boring job that pays 150k but I hate going to the office because I love fast paced environment, how do I navigate getting another job while keeping this….. for starts, this job gives me so much freedom I can finish work at 12pm and go home for break and no one will notice, been doing this for for 4 years. I’m bored out if my brains, I get wit done in 2 hrs thanks to Claude and ChatGPT, I have my own office and looking to add something to keep busy…..

First of all, I moved from a different province to another province somewhere in the north for a job with extra 40k difference. Upon resuming, I was to share an office space with someone in a different department.) I though it was cool since l’m new and someone to show me things for the first weeks: but she creeps me out,
Coffee time: she sees me going for coffee, she wants to tag along, my work meetings are confidential but she eavesdrops and asks me later, I try to act deaf but she comes closer asking who was that, etc sometimes I just touch d surface and ignore the rest. She goes through my desk, seen my paper on her desk onetime. She discuss things she hears from me during meeting or on call with other persons in different unit during their outings. She plays music in the office ( not too loud) but my job involves calculations and sometimes I start talking to myself to numb the music in my brain. Her job can be busy but this past few days, it’s been quiet, so she sleeps and snore and fart (I don’t mind the fart, it’s nature) but she likes the door closed, but this is work time, I hate people have to knock to come in to talk to me, all in all she is a hard worker and a good performer but I don’t know how to bring this up without confrontation. I don’t want to breed toxic environment. The weirdest shit that happened this afternoon, I needed to finish work but it was already pass my closing time and she was leaving, she kept saying things like u need to leave, u don’t get paid for all this. Saying it so loud that other persons will assume l’m speaking against management.

M 29 year old female, have 50k in savings, 3500 in cc debts, but I pay off my monthly cc statement in full, have never had a cc debt before and this is reallly stressing me out, I have 21k in my tfsa, I have a mortgage 2300 monthly, my pay is 130k annually. I have a baby she is 1, I pay daycare monthly, plus utility and other bills. I don’t go out much, I hate socialising or travelling much. M more of a couch and duvet, and Netflix and sleep a lot. My job matches my pension 100%, but what can I do or invest to make more money. I need a second job tho but not getting anything now.