Husband being a mama's boy.
Need advice about my husband and in-laws.
I’ve been married almost 3 years and have always lived separately from my inlaws because of my husband’s postings. Recently he was posted to his hometown so I tried living with his family for a month. I cooked food and everything. My room was right next to common room and There was almost no privacy, I eventually overheard my MIL and BIL talking badly about me and my family. When I confronted her she denied everything and called me a liar. My husband privately admitted she was wrong but didn’t stand up for me.
I came back to my mother’s house. We always had govt houses allocated but this time it isnt available. Now my husband says he’ll rent a separate house only if I give up my monthly pocket money, and he’ll tell his mother that I am the one who doesn’t want to live with them.I feel completely betrayed. I don’t think wanting a separate home is unreasonable, but I’m being made to feel like I’m creating the problem.
What would you do? how do I deal with a husband who won’t stand up for me?