u/MrJethalalGada

This is a serious question
I’m planning to end.
When I think there are a lot of stuff that i need to take care of before I leave:

Informing parents about my health term plans

Managing and encashing my stocks and shifting them to my parents account

Deleting my social media

Transferring my money to my parents account, breaking all Fixed Deposits

Moving my vehicle and properties to my parents name

What else I’m missing?

Edit:

1. Clear browser history
2. Clean laptops
3. Download and clear online storage- gdrive, google photos, icloud

I’m 31M, earning enough in current scenario
Interacted with 5-6 matches over call/chat & the things which I’ve found in common is:
“Audacity to ask things/wish for things without having any leverage at their end”
Now before you hate me and call out read full

Common pattern which i have seen, F does
- International Trip each year, it’s definitely fine, but still living mouth to hand
- No backup or emergency fund, living life to fullest
- No health term plan, still adventurous
- Want a separate flat/house in tier 1 city but will they contribute? No they are earning less and have to send money home
- Can in laws come and stay? No
- Social Drinking? Yeah why not friend circle
- Career Aspirations? Not thought yet, going with flow

Are M only here to take care of every thing? Where is the equality? Where is the feminist side?
After all this interactions, I’ve learned that it is always better to ask
- Finance
- Career
- Future
- Social

In Call One

Now You hate me and come say that boys do the same, absolutely they do it

So assume a F has written the same for M

See it both ways!

• Treat Delhi AQI like cricket scores — if it’s below 400, people call it “better today.”

• Watch Bengaluru flood after one rain and still pay premium rent for a “luxury tech lifestyle.”

• See Mumbai drowning every monsoon and act shocked like it’s a new DLC update every year.

• Convince yourself the Yamuna in Delhi is actually supposed to look like a toxic foam experiment.

• When forests in Uttarakhand or the Northeast disappear, just remember another “eco-friendly township” needed land.

• If a journalist dies, gets arrested, threatened, or mysteriously “goes silent,” immediately label it “complicated” and move on.

• Watch freedom of speech slowly become freedom after approval.

• See comedians, reporters, activists, students, and ordinary people scared to speak openly — then proudly tweet “world’s biggest democracy.”

• Trust news channels that spend 3 hours debating movie boycotts while cities choke, rivers die, unemployment rises, and corruption becomes a subscription service.

• Accept that media’s job is no longer asking questions — it’s managing emotions till the next distraction arrives.

• Learn to scroll past bridge collapses, train accidents, paper leaks, scams, mob violence, and environmental destruction like it’s just daily weather updates.

• Open LinkedIn after all this and post: “Humbled and excited for new opportunities 🚀”

Because deep down everyone knows something is seriously broken.
But salaries come on the 1st, EMIs are due on the 5th, and survival has replaced outrage. 🇮🇳