u/MyBrnr

So background my gf often over emphasize her attraction for other men infront of me typically when it comes to regards of TV shows or movies. It something that bothers me and she is vaguely aware that it is something that bothers me. So today me and her were watching game of thrones and Jon snow appeared. She than went on TikTok to search up edits of him. When she was watching the edit she made like moan noise or what ever those comical noises people make for someone they find attractive. When she did this she gave me a look of like a kid being caught doing something they didn’t so I just flat at told her “when you lust over other men infront of me it disgusts me” now I definitely recognize I definitely could have voiced this concern better but it just came out. I apologize for damage control but yea that’s my TIFU

TL:DR: I told my gf it disgust me when she finds over other men in-front of me

Recently went through a break up and I kinda don’t know how to get over it, because I 80% willingly to say it wasn’t my fault but I still missed the none the less. Is good coping strategy to focus on the fact it wasn’t really my fault and dismantles imagine I have had of the the person I loved, or do I just wait till it past pain passes.

We had a heavy conversation a couple days ago resulting in us breaking up for about 3 hrs during the heavy conversation I told too close friends that about why we broke up. The problem is she is friends with these close friends.

The reason I told them because it was heavy only they at the time would understand the full context, now she asked me if I told anyone and I chose not to lie

Now I’m stressing, but just accepting the upcoming possible fallout