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Is she cheating

My gf of 13 years, 5 kids together, has been absolutely horrible to me the last year. She went crazy on me for watching porn, snooped through my phone multiple times before I figured ot out. She went on about how its cheating and ive since stopped watching it.

She still acted like she didn't want me around, would bitch at me all the time, get bad when I would call her on my breaks or be home at all. I saw her run into the bedroom one night when I came home early and turn the light off before i came in at 12:30am. She has slept in the kids rooms a lot when shes "mad at me" and is very secretive of her phone. Recently I watched her snap chat activity and she was on it every 2 hours (the number one app used for cheating). A few yeats ago, she fb friended a guy she f*cked (she use him to cheat on her then bf. He was one of his friends), she didnt tell me. I found out and she lied her way through it. Ive uncovered more, chats have been deleted, she has searched dating apps (cant confirm she downloaded them, but I mean...), SHE WATCHED PORN AFTER SHE RAGED AT ME ABOUT IT, and followed multiple hot guys on Instagram afyer she told me not to follow girls early in our relationship. When I confront her about anything, she says "idk", "i dont remember", or says nothing. When things are said, she ends up screaming at me and leaving. Where does she go? Idk. She has a convenient excuse for EVERYTHING. Shows zero emotions like a phsycopath. Whats the path forward with kids here? Affording anything apart is impossible, but this is torture.

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u/MyQandAandMe — 8 days ago

For women who do the majority of domestic housekeeping and cooking etc.

How do you manage all that, with kids, and have energy to give attention to your husband?

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u/MyQandAandMe — 4 months ago