u/Mysterious-Box-7487

Guys, I’m feeling really nervous. My period is 11 days late. Last month it was also 12 days late, but I haven’t had sex since then. My last time having penetrative sex was more than 6 months ago. I took a pregnancy test, and it was negative, 26 in total (+ US, last one was in 14, August, e/ no fetus)…

On the 14th, I had an ultrasound. My doctor saw a 22 mm follicle in my right ovary and said I would probably ovulate soon. It’s already the 18th, and still nothing. I don’t know what to do.

I also had some intimate contact that didn’t involve any kind of penetration or ejaculation, just rubbing while we were fully clothed. I’m scared. I’ll only be able to take another test at the end of the month. Should I schedule another appointment? What should I do?

I’m a little terrified, and I don’t really know where to start. But before I explain what I want to say, I should mention that these situations happened in different months and involved three different guys.

I’ve had very light brown discharge for about 3–4 days, but my period still hasn’t come. My period didn’t come in June, and I only got my period on July 8. It’s already August 12, and all I’ve had is this brown discharge.

The only time I had penetrative sex was with a condom, with ejaculation inside the condom. That was 28 weeks ago, almost 7 months ago. I tested compulsively, and my most recent test was on August 10, two days ago. After that encounter, I took around 24 pregnancy tests. I also had transvaginal ultrasounds in February, March, April, May, June, and July, and I’m going to have another one this month in August.

I also took two morning-after pills, and the last time I had my hormones tested was in April, and everything was normal.

On June 27, I had some clothed rubbing with a guy, but there was absolutely no penetration, not with his penis, fingers, or anything else. There was only brief contact, and there wasn’t even any ejaculation. I was wearing underwear and he was wearing shorts. I took pregnancy tests 4 and 6 weeks afterward. Both were negative.

Between July 31 and August 6, I was about to start dating another guy. We also never had sex, but we did rub against each other while fully clothed.

Now I have this persistent brown discharge, and I’m starting to get worried. What do you guys think this could be? I’m a little scared…

I’m a little terrified, and I don’t really know where to start. But before I explain what I want to say, I should mention that these situations happened in different months and involved three different guys.

I’ve had very light brown discharge for about 3–4 days, but my period still hasn’t come. My period didn’t come in June, and I only got my period on July 8. It’s already August 12, and all I’ve had is this brown discharge.

The only time I had penetrative sex was with a condom, with ejaculation inside the condom. That was 28 weeks ago, almost 7 months ago. I tested compulsively, and my most recent test was on August 10, two days ago. After that encounter, I took around 24 pregnancy tests. I also had transvaginal ultrasounds in February, March, April, May, June, and July, and I’m going to have another one this month in August.

On June 27, I had some clothed rubbing with a guy, but there was absolutely no penetration, not with his penis, fingers, or anything else. There was only brief contact, and there wasn’t even any ejaculation. I was wearing underwear and he was wearing shorts. I took pregnancy tests 4 and 6 weeks afterward. Both were negative.

Between July 31 and August 6, I was about to start dating another guy. We also never had sex, but we did rub against each other while fully clothed.

Now I have this persistent brown discharge, and I’m starting to get worried. What do you guys think this could be? I’m a little scared…

I don’t want to make a long post, so I’ll try to summarize everything.

I’m having brown discharge instead of my period. The problem is that my cycles have been irregular.
Here are some things that have happened to me:

• I had penetrative sex at the beginning of the year, and in 1 week and 6 days, it will have been 7 months since it happened. I tested MULTIPLE times after that encounter. I tested in February (5 times), March (5 times), April (3 times), May (3 times), June (2 times), and July (4 times), for a total of 22 tests after that situation. I also had ultrasounds every month, so I must have had around 7 ultrasounds.

My period was also late last month. Instead of coming on July 26, it came on August 8, which was 13 days late. I ended up having 2 ultrasounds and 1 beta hCG test, all negative.

This month, in August, my period doesn’t seem to want to come. It was supposed to come on August 8, and so far, nothing. What could be causing this?

• Besides what happened almost 7 months ago, I also want to mention that in June and August I had some contact over clothing. The first time was in June, and I tested 4 weeks later, negative. In August, there was no penetration, no ejaculation, no direct contact, nothing like that. Just kissing and touching over clothes.

Should I test again? Should I see a doctor? Could the brown discharge be a reason to see one, or would that be overreacting? Opinions?

De forma resumida, a minha última relação sexual, foi há quase 7 meses atrás. Relação com penetração.

E, depois disso, Junho - Agosto, só tenho tido contactos de roupa. Como roçar, e beijando.

Ou seja,

Situação A: Perdi a minha virgindade com o Cara 1, de camisinha e há quase 7 meses atrás.

Situação B: Estava bêbada, e tive um roça com o Cara 2. Não rolou penetração, pelo que me lembro. E também não tirei a calcinha em nenhum momento.

Situação C: Estou a ficar com o Cara 3, e não fizemos sexo até agora, porque eu NÃO quero. Eu tenho muito medo. Só tivemos contactos de roupa (Ex: Ambos de calças e de peças íntimas), nunca fizemos nada para além disso…

Estou preocupada demais, porque tenho tido um corrimento castanho sem menstruação e também fico com muita ansiedade só de pensar em Gravidez Críptica.

Eu testei pela Situação A (Desde Janeiro até Julho, estou com 16 testes negativos e com 7 ultrassons), e também testei pela Situação B , após 4 semanas.

As minhas menstruações têm sido inconstantes e irregulares. Não desceu para mim em Junho, desceu para mim no dia 8 de Julho (após inúmeros testes negativos e após muitas noites sem dormir), agora estamos em Agosto e estou com esse corrimento marrom, e a menstruação não desce.

Deveria me preocupar?
E não, isto não é um post para trolling.