u/MysteriousExplorer85

35M. I didn’t think this would bother me, but it does. In most introductions both dating and arranged setups I’ve noticed that people are more curious about the facts that I earn better than average, what my family background is and a lot more status-based areas… than to me as a person. It creates this strange pressure where you don’t know if the interest is genuine or not. I’ve been exploring different routes but I’m not sure if there is anything that can fix this and make it a bit easier.

I run a small consulting business and I’m trying to post more on X, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook.

Right now it feels like a lot to keep up with. Coming up with ideas, editing posts, switching between accounts, actually posting… it eats up more time than I expected.

I’ve been looking at n8n, a few content tools, schedulers, and GeeLark for separate social accounts.

I’m just wondering if setting all this up is actually worth it, or if I’m about to make things more complicated than they need to be.

Anyone here doing something similar?

When I started running more than one IG page, the hardest part wasn’t posting. It was keeping everything separate enough to know what was actually working.

I’d be testing content, saving ideas, checking different niches, and switching between accounts. After a while it all started blending together, so it was hard to tell which page or setup was getting better results.

What helped was making cleaner workflows for each page. Different setups, fewer things mixed together, and a better way to track what I was doing. I’ve been using Geelark for part of that. It didn’t do the work for me, but it stopped everything from turning into a mess.

Once I could actually see what was working, the results got more consistent.