u/MythologyBuffOz

my boyfriend is trans 20, and so am i, trans man 19. and i want to find more ways i can affirm him while he's still loading (he's about 1 month on T gel) and there hasn't been many visible changes yet and i want to know some advice on how i can affirm him while he's waiting for more changes. i've been on T shots for a little over a year and i know how hard it is to wait. do you guys have any advice? for more info/context, he's only been out for like a year and he's having a difficult time trying to find himself outside of his gender and his upbringing, and i feel like i'm being supportive and helpful, (i convinced him that he should just bite the bullet and get on T instead of waiting for his life to be "perfect" to do it. as well as encouraging him to see a therapist and a psychiatrist for his debilitating anxiety, which he is now medicated for and is feeling much better) but i still want to help in any way i can. help!

I'm 19 and live with my non-supportive mother. I've been working and trying to raise money but its not going anywhere, if you want to donate or even just share that would be really cool! i hope you guys get enough money for your surgeries too <3