Do you think having kids is selfish/wrong and why/why not? I always see people saying that having kids is the most selfless thing you can do.

Also how do you feel about the argument that “you can’t get consent from something that doesn’t exist, so therefore bringing that being into existence without it’s consent is perfectly fine”? Also that “life is a gift/worth it” and that there are good things in life, so you should have kids?

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u/Naive_Painting_8917 — 1 day ago

Does anyone else’s family do nothing but gossip?

No one in my family besides my mom (I’m not close with her and never tell her anything personal) are at all involved in my life however I am always hearing that they all go around talking to each other about things in my personal life, mostly about my marriage and medical issues. I never talk to them let alone tell them anything, and my husband doesn’t either. The things they say are negative too, it’s harsh judgments about my personal life. Is this okay for them to be doing? I never hear from these people however they somehow are always talking bad about me. Does this happen to anyone else?

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u/Naive_Painting_8917 — 1 month ago