My brothers gf has an eating disorder. Do I tell him)
I have recently been struggling as at every single event that we are all at I have gone to the bathroom and noticed that my brothers girlfriend has purged. I see them quite a bit and it happens every time without fail. He knows that she has a history of an ED but thinks she’s recovered. I’m worried about her and wondering if I should speak to him just to make sure that she can get treatment / is getting treatment. He’s a very kind and considerate guy and I know would handle it well. I don’t want to involve myself as I have my own history with it but have been in recovery and am quite far in that journey and doing quite well currently. I also really struggle with how triggering it is and it makes me want to avoid these functions. Telling him is not to get involved, I’m just worried and want to make sure someone who cares about her knows and that she is getting treatment for it. What do I do?