u/Neat_Replacement_217

i feel like dating apps have just turned into a cesspool of people just wanting to hookup and everyone having wayyy too many options

i honestly didnt even know how to word the title lol. but basically im asking for advice on how to navigate my life as being someone who feels emotions very intensely (for context im in my early 20s). like when i love someone, i love them so hard and it takes me a very very long time to get over them if it doesn’t end up working out. when i get sad, im not just sad for a bit.. it basically ruines my whole day. i could basically just keep going on and on but its with every emotion that one could possibly have. its incredibly draining for me and i feel like such an outsider to all my relationships in my life because they never seem to meet me where i wanna be met emotionally. im not sure if any of that made much sense lol but if it did and you’re able to share some tips or anything, itd be appreciated 💛🥲

im coming on here cause i really dont know what to do at this point. i shower everyday, you unscented soap, wash my clothes, etc.. i also haven’t been sexually active in almost a year so i know its not related to that. its like no matter what i do, regardless if im walking around or sitting.. i start sweating so bad down there and in between my thighs that it makes it start to smell like onions. i feel uncomfortable all the time worried if other people can smell me and i dont know what to do. any recs would be appreciated

my main reasoning is that for the past 4 months ive probably been drinking 3-5 times a week. not just casually, but getting basically shit faced. then waking up the next way with extreme anxiety, hungover, doing things i regret etc.. a lot of people im friends with are drinkers so any tips or suggestions that i should know about?