u/Necessary-Put-5174

30 f Mumbai, single , looking for something authentic

30F | Mumbai

Built a good life for myself — career, independence, solo travel, experiences — but still looking for someone with whom I can genuinely be myself and eventually build a life.

Looking for a man aged 28–35 who is:
• Open-minded
• Emotionally mature
• Strong-willed
• Non-smoker (non-negotiable)
• Vegetarian (non-negotiable)
• Based in Mumbai
• Lives independently and has his own place (non-negotiable)

Anyone below 28 — not interested at all.

I drink occasionally, just being transparent.

I don’t care about your past. I care about alignment in values, mindset, lifestyle, and how you treat your partner.

If your idea of conversation starts with body count questions, demanding pictures, or creepy behaviour, stay away.

I’ve worked hard to build the life I have, so I’m very clear about what I want. I love travelling, exploring cafés, spontaneous plans, and experiencing life — if you only like staying home all the time, we probably won’t connect.

Preferably Hindu/Baniya background simply because it makes things easier for families.

Looking for someone who shows up, takes responsibility, and believes in standing by their partner.

If this resonates, DM with your ASL and a short intro.

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u/Necessary-Put-5174 — 13 hours ago

30 f looking to date

Amidst all the ambition, independence, and everything I’ve built for myself, there’s still this quiet need — to find someone with whom I can truly be myself and eventually build a life with.
I’m a 30F based in India, someone who’s quite independent, has travelled solo (both within India and internationally), and enjoys a mix of things — from café hopping, reading, and long conversations over tea… to randomly being in a new city, a little drunk, and just enjoying the moment.
I’m looking for a man in his late 20s to early 30s who is:
Open-minded
Strong-willed
Emotionally grounded
Non-smoker (non-negotiable)
Vegetarian (non-negotiable)
Lives independently , has their own place for us to hangout, I m not interested in staying in random hotels. ( non- negotiable)
I drink occasionally just being transparent
Ideally has his own vehicle ( optional)
Stays in Mumbai , cause I don’t do long distance

I don’t care about your past — that’s yours. What matters to me is whether our thoughts, values, and way of living align in the present.If you are someone who likes to ask bodycount or just beg for sending pics , stay the hell away. I don’t welcome creep energy.

I m a well earning individual who works in a reputed firm,and have worked really hard for it . And hence finally allowing myself to ask for precisely for what I want.

I love to travel a lot and explore new cafes and just be lazy ,if you just like to stay at home all the time, stay away.

I come from a Hindu/Baniya background and would ideally prefer someone from a similar space, mostly because it makes life easier for families — though I’m not rigid beyond that.

I don’t have a long checklist, but I do believe in being with someone who:
shows up
takes responsibility
and believes in protecting and standing by their partner

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out.
If you don’t meet the basic conditions mentioned above, please don’t waste either of our time — I’m quite clear about what I want.

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u/Necessary-Put-5174 — 1 day ago
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30f single from Vikhroli

Looking for someone who is a non smoker , for meetups, normal hangouts, catching movie, clubbing whatever ur vibe is , I’m in . DM with ur ASL of interested

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u/Necessary-Put-5174 — 10 days ago