Worried for my daughter
Hello, I have joined because I’m not sure where else to post. I appreciate any of you reading this and offering input if you have any. The ovarian cyst sub mods are ignoring my request to join and the PCOS sub told me my concerns don’t belong there either. My 24 year old daughter has been diagnosed by ultrasound with an 18.5x14x9cm complex ovarian cyst with septations that the radiologist stated is “not definitely benign”. Her symptoms for about a year-ish have been bloating, intermittent constipation, and more recently a feeling sometimes of nausea during and right after a bowel movement. No abdominal pain otherwise, just some pain at times in her thighs when she has to sit too long at her desk. Some months her period is a little heavier than others but nothing alarming. She is on a birth control ring and has been for probably 8 years. She had the US last Monday and saw her gyno yesterday to discuss. Gyno sent her immediately for tumor marker tests and ordered an MRI and my daughter will be reconvening with her late this month provided she can get the MRI scheduled before then to discuss the surgery plan. So far the CA 125 has come back at 26 and the HCG <3 so that’s good. Her lymphocytes and absolute lymphocytes are elevated, but not by much and the rest of the CBC with diff was normal. Her gyno said if the MRI and tumor markers come back concerning she will be referring her to gyn-oncology at Duke but also would be giving her the choice to be referred to them regardless due to what she described as their more rigorous pathology protocols. She did warn my daughter that gyn-onc surgeons are less likely to prioritize saving an ovary, however. This was quite upsetting to my daughter as she very much wants to have a baby. My inclination would be to say screw that left ovary, let’s take it out if it could be hiding cancer, but that’s not my decision to make for her. Has anyone here had a mass at or near this size removed with their ovary spared? And has anyone still been found to have cancer despite all tumor markers being normal?