u/Nervous-Usual8636

I haven't had my hair cut professionally in years because of bad experiences and general nerves. I want to get a shag cut/mullet/wolf cut (I have photos but don't really know how to describe it.) and when researching hair dressers in my immediate area they all tend to lean towards more sleek styles, still lovely just not my style. Any recommendations? I can travel to Chorley if need be.

I haven't drunk alcohol in about ten years (I'm 35) and I've avoided it because I would start to panic about being sick whenever I had some. Recently I've been working hard on getting back out there and socialising and part of me wants to try having a drink again, but I worry about the anxiety now. Logically I know I probably won't be sick after one drink, but I also know I will probably worry that I will which could ruin my night. I don't want to be held back from having fun anymore.

I'm sat in an Uber panicking that my straighteners aren't off even though I checked them six times, unplugged them from the wall but all I can think is my house will burn down while I'm out. My friends all think I'm just a worrier and I don't feel like they understand or that I can talk to them about it. How can I explain to people who have never experienced this or known someone who has what it's like?

People tend to say oh I worry about stuff like that too, but sometimes I end up having a full melt down about it. I'm struggling.