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Image 1 — Acne on nose bridge swollen and tender, swells my eyelid too
Image 2 — Acne on nose bridge swollen and tender, swells my eyelid too
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Acne on nose bridge swollen and tender, swells my eyelid too

Hello! Wondering if u should go to the doctors for this. I put pimple patch on before sleep and woke up with my eyelid affected (pic1) but after cold compress it's much better(pic2). To be fair skin around it was already tender and sore the day before. Just not swollen.

It's not painful if left alone just when it's touched. Wondering if this is infected and need medical attention. Worried that it's going to get worse since its on the triangle

u/Nervous-Way3662 — 5 days ago
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Any fellow indo girlies giving up on dating?

Hi there! I'm just wondering if there are indo girls out here that are just kind of exhausted with the dating pool.

I'm 25 and I do know that's a fairly young age, but as we all know dating in Indo is like, get married at 26 and have kids and all. I don't really mind that will not wed by 30, but it does gets to my head when friends my age are getting engaged.

I feel like a lot of us Indos grew up with the understansing that marriage is a must and that somehow wired our brain to chase relationships.

I'm trying to sit with the fact that there is just no one made for me. Tried so many times and so hard as I am always the loser in love, but seems like no man has reciprocated the same amount of effort and feeling as I do. I do grew up with the sentiment of walking down the aisle one day yadda yadda. But that seems so unrealistic now.

Anyone else giving up on dating temporarily or permanently? If so why are you giving up?

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u/Nervous-Way3662 — 6 days ago
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Having bad thoughts about trapping my FP

Just to make it clear I don't like that I'm thinking like this! I want these thoughts to go away as I don't want to harm my FP

I'm in a great relationship and I love my partner very much. I go lengths to make him happy, set us dates and ensure his comfort in our shared little apartment.

But he's moving back to his country, and he refuses to do LDR. I feel like I did everything on my end and he doesn't even want to fight for us. I'm trying to move to his country so that we can be together but even with my efforts and will, he would not wait for me.

I am going in debt for trying to sustain the both of us so that he would be comfortable and not leave me here in my country. In desperation, I even secretly hoped that I would get pregnant so that he would stay. But I know that's harmful to me and him and I would never deliberately trap him with a baby. Hell that won't even guarantee that he will stay.

How do I stop these thoughts?

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u/Nervous-Way3662 — 22 days ago