r/Perempuan

Early 20 tp gigi udh ilang 4

Dr dulu jarang gosok gigi, mulai serinh gosok gigi pas pindah ke asrama yg notabenenya hidup nya lebih bersih dr lingkungan rumah yg sembarang. Belajar dr sana kalau sikat Gigi tu wajib.

Well walau skrng udh mulai gosok gigi 2x sehari dan floas gigi nya ga bisa tumbuh lg dan nyadar kalau struktur muka berubah karna ini.

Gigi belakang sisa akar akarnya doang (masih biaa dipakai buat makan)

Gigi graham ilang

Gigi taring ilang setengah

kalau pake bpjs bisa ga ya ? Terus harus di copot kah gigi sisanya? Dan ditambal?

Dan kalau mau siap siap buat berobat ke puskesmas butuh biaya berapa perkiraan, makasi semua

tldr: should i ghost my (former) college friend, or should i lower my ego and reply to her?

hi puans. hari ini aku di chat temen kuliah. dia udah lulus, aku masih skripsi. dia nanya apa aku masih lanjut kuliah.

i hesitate to reply, karena tiap inget masa kuliah, aku selalu keinget momen2 where i feel wronged? aku waktu aktif kuliah deket sama 2 orang, and they were way more close with each other than they were to me. like i was just tagging along with them

long story short, aku nge-cut off dua duanya karena aku merasa mereka udh ga peduli sama aku. since then, gaada yg chat duluan. until today

maybe because I'm neurodivergent, and i often miss social clues, and i think that made them pity me instead of building genuine friendship with me?

like we hung out pretty much everyday before they graduated, but i never felt close to either of them? i never think they saw me as their friend either. they know alot about each other, but not about me and vice versa.

and yet it hurts so much when i cut off contact with them. why is that?