u/Dazzlingsky44

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How would be best to explain "the gap" if asked? [WORLD][APAC][ASIA][INDO]

So I have a friend:

She's currently unemployed from corporate world, last full time job is in October 2025. Her contract ended in October, she was offered a permanent position but declined it. This job is in television media industry and she's from international relations major. On the exit interview, she wrote the reason for her quitting is to help with family business. That's only the point she mention, she didn't say much more.

She wanted to move to a different industry because she realized she didn't want to work there nor in media anymore. Fast forward, her dad got diagnosed with cancer, stage 4 and she ended up helping her family business even more. It's a MSME/ small Aquarium fish shop (they sell mainly ornamental/ decorative fish, aquariums, and other stuff needed related to it). It's now May 2026, which is almost 7 months since her last job. During those times, she mainly help with the family business, actively jobseeking, and try some upskilling (she got a project management certification). Now, she's more towards actively jobseeking because her hands got even more full since her dad got diagnosed.

She's mainly more interested in remote position. She didn't exactly want to overshare regarding her family business industry if asked by the HR. Recently, she got more interested in the climate action, environmental advocacy, and marine conservation sector and been trying find opportunity towards that.

Questions:

  1. What would be the professional/ best way to respond to the question "what's your family business", without directly saying oh it's "Aquarium fish shop". Especially if it isn't useful/ related to the role/ industry in the job she's applying

  2. From HR POV, If she choose to share her situation for the question "what did you do during your unemployment time", would her being vulnerable and openly talking about her situation (her dad got diagnosed with cancer, stage 4 and she need to help with family business) help her get the job or is it just ended up oversharing? This question is for both onsite and remote role. Also how would be the best way to frame it if it's helping her get the job

  3. If she got opportunity related to the marine conservation sector, would mentioning about her family business that she's currently helping with, which is the "Aquarium fish shop" be an advantage or not? If it is an advantage, how would be the best way to frame it?

If you need more context, you can ask questions. Any other advice or suggestions that help are greatly appreciated

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u/Dazzlingsky44 — 7 days ago

What made you feel that life is worth living?

What made you look back and think that, "Oh, I'm glad that I'm still here". Not for consolation but genuine question. Although going thru some wave atm

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u/Dazzlingsky44 — 17 days ago