u/New-Experience569

Spent my birthday solo

Spent my birthday solo

Hii! It’s my first time spending/celebrating my birthday alone after spending the past 7 birthdays with someone. 🥹

Honestly, I didn’t know what to expect. But okay lang pala. Masaya pa rin pala hahaha. 🥹 It’s actually peaceful.

You can do whatever you want, whenever you want. Eat wherever you want, go wherever you want, change your plans whenever you want, and just enjoy your own company.

I thought being alone would feel really sad, but surprisingly, it doesn’t. It’s different, definitely. But I’m happy that I still found little moments to enjoy my birthday.

Hope you’re happy for me, wherever you are. 🤍 I miss you, bb. 🥹

It was my bday yesterdayyy. 🎂🤍
Wala lang, share ko lang hahaha :)

EDIT:
Restaurant: Finestra, Solaire QC.
(the resto’s fullybooked and walk in lang ako kasi biglaan lang :) sooo sa bar counter po yung table na nakuha ko)

u/New-Experience569 — 2 days ago

Solo birthday getaway

Hii! :) My birthday is in a few days and I still haven’t planned anything yet.

I’ve had a VERYYY rough year. The person I used to celebrate my birthdays with passed away earlier this year, so this year I just want to spend my birthday alone and do something for myself.

My first plan was to go on a hike, but the weather has been pretty bad. 🌧️ My second option is Da Nang, Vietnam, but I’m having second thoughts because I’m honestly not prepared yet — I still need clothes, a new luggage, and basically everythinggg.

Any suggestions for a solo activity or getaway I can do for my birthday? I’m open to traveling somewhere nearby / visa-free countries or even just doing something simple. I just really want some alone time, nature, good food/coffee, and a little change of scenery.

Would appreciate any suggestions! 🤍 pls be kind

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u/New-Experience569 — 6 days ago

27 [F4M] looking for chill kausap

(idk how to write the title but I’m open to talking to anyone)
Not looking to force anything. If we become online friends, cool. If we only exchange a few messages, that’s okay too.

A little about me:
- 27F, 5’4
- Can actually hold a conversation—as long as it’s a two-way effort
- Into running lately and trying to rebuild healthy habits (im failing tho😀)
- Loves beaches, sunsets, spontaneous road trips, coffee, and solo dates
- Runs a small business and is currently exploring remote work
- I enjoy both deep conversations about life and completely unserious kanal humor. Send me your memes, random thoughts, or your latest life crisis—we can talk about anything.

A little context (please be kind): I don’t usually mention this upfront but my boyfriend passed away earlier this year. It’s been the hardest year of my life, and I’m still grieving. I’m not looking for a relationship or a rebound. I just genuinely miss talking to people and having meaningful conversations. On busy days, I feel okay? (Maybe because im distracted) but most days I’m not, and I’m still learning to live with that.

Looking for someone who:
- Is around mid-20s to early-30s
- Knows how to keep a conversation going without making it feel like a job interview
- Is respectful, emotionally mature, and has a sense of humor
- Is completely okay with this being just friendship

If you’re also looking for a genuine online friend or a chill kausap, my inbox is open. No pressure, no expectations. Let’s see where the conversation goes.

If you want to swap pics, send yours first. If you’re curious, I’d say I look pretty decent. Thanks! 😊

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u/New-Experience569 — 21 days ago

Is there a time limit for when you want to connect to a dead loved one?

It’s been almost 3 months since he passed. Is there still a possibility to connect with them? Or am I too late?

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u/New-Experience569 — 3 months ago