u/New-Specialist-3617

Want a fufilling career? No, salary pay for the same job will never equal that of a man.

Want respect in academic and work settings? No your word means less than a man, even if they repeat what you say verbatum or say something incorrect your word will never matter as much.

Want to have interesting conversations with strangers? No it all goes back to your apperance and sex appeal!

Wanna have sex? If you don’t want kids, take pills that make you hate initimacy and cant cum! Pills don’t work? Get a device inserted that makes you bleed/have pain for months with no pain relief but OTC meds!

Want to just fucking walk down the street? No, no matter what you wear someone will yell something at you or follow you. Be careful and always aware!!

Want medical attention? Your needs and issues will never be taken seriously- you might even die from them being dismissed! Plus, there is more research on male inpotency than life-threatening female medical issues because FUCK YOU YOU WERENT BORN WITH A DICK.

Want friends of any gender affiliation? Watch your back because 1/4 of all women get SA and over 85% is from people you know!

IM SICK OF THIS SHIT!!! IVE KNOWN FOR YEARS I WOULDVE RATHER BEEN BORN A MAN. I LOVE PEOPLE I DONT VIEW SEX/GENDER AS A BIG DEAL BUT IM ALWAYS REMINDED OF IT WHEN I FORGET FUCK THSI SHIT

listen I love gender expression and I’m comfortable in my femininity as a cisgender woman and such but GOD if i couldve chosen what i was born as itd be a man. right now im trying to figure out birth control as someone with diagnosed mental/physical bullshit goin on its a fucking nightmare because nothing has no negatives. One that doesnt make me touch-repulsed and unable to cum makes me bleed constantly and if i get an iud i might get pain for months on end and not even be sedated for it.

I also have fuckin vestibulodynia so condoms make me need to tap out sooner/irritate it. STUPID WOMEN PARTS

I just wanna fuck this is why i should just stick to women (bisexual and usually top chicks) but i have a stupid boyfriend and sex is stupid awesome but i wont peg him for at least a month yet and i prefer a fuck each other trade off type scenario for my ideal sex life like i still want my shit ROCKED regularly

god knew id be too powerful born a man i stfg

I SWEAR TO FUCKING GODDDUHHHHHH

EDIT: Since some people are confused: this is NOT anti-men internet jargon. It is anti-SYSTEM jargon. 😁👍

My closest and most trusted friends are “white cis-het” men who treat me with equal respect and dignity. I just have seen first-hand how my bad experiences in life as a woman are things they've never even had to consider and usually I brush it off as “just life” but this recent blow made everything bubble up.

I’m 20F, so other than the career thing, which I heard about from other adults in my life, everything I listed that I struggle with as a woman are things that I have experienced unfortunately on multiple occasions throughout my life.

Want a fufilling career? No, salary pay for the same job will never equal that of a man.

Want respect in academic and work settings? No your word means less than a man, even if they repeat what you say verbatum or say something incorrect your word will never matter as much.

Want to have interesting conversations with strangers? No it all goes back to your apperance and sex appeal!

Wanna have sex? If you don’t want kids, take pills that make you hate initimacy and cant cum! Pills don’t work? Get a device inserted that makes you bleed/have pain for months with no pain relief but OTC meds!

Want to just fucking walk down the street? No, no matter what you wear someone may yell something at you or follow you. Stay careful and aware!!

Want medical attention? Your needs and issues will never be taken seriously- you might even die from them being dismissed! Plus, there is more research on male inpotency than life-threatening female medical issues because FUCK YOU YOU WERENT BORN WITH A DICK.

Want friends of any gender affiliation? Watch your back because 1/4 of all women get SA and over 85% is from people you know!

IM SICK OF THIS SHIT!!! IVE KNOWN FOR YEARS I WOULDVE RATHER BEEN BORN A MAN. I LOVE PEOPLE I DONT VIEW SEX/GENDER AS A BIG DEAL BUT IM ALWAYS REMINDED OF IT WHEN I FORGET FUCK THSI SHIT

listen I love gender expression and I’m comfortable in my femininity as a cisgender woman and such but GOD if i couldve chosen what i was born as itd be a man. right now im trying to figure out birth control as someone with diagnosed mental/physical bullshit goin on its a fucking nightmare because nothing has no negatives. One that doesnt make me touch-repulsed and unable to cum makes me bleed constantly and if i get an iud i might get pain for months on end and not even be sedated for it.

I also have fuckin vestibulodynia so condoms make me need to tap out sooner/irritate it. STUPID WOMEN PARTS

I just wanna fuck this is why i should just stick to women (bisexual and usually top chicks) but i have a stupid boyfriend and sex is stupid awesome but i wont peg him for at least a month yet and i prefer a fuck each other trade off type scenario for my ideal sex life like i still want my shit ROCKED regularly

god knew id be too powerful born a man i stfg

I SWEAR TO FUCKING GODDDUHHHHHH

If went past the lines friendship, it would be for forever. I’m too young for forever, and too scared to loose him.

on a burner account bc duh and im gonna keep this breif because im afraid someone ik might see it. like im actually terrified to even give any information about my current situation because he means so much to me.

my sister asked me the other day if i was into any of my friends, and i said not really but id marry one of them. i would in a heartbeat. i could imagine waking up next to him every morning with a smile on my face. there would never be a boring moment. i know him. and its why i cant- god. i liked him a lot a while back, and recently had that comvo with my sister and now he may be into me and…. im too young for forever. I know it might sound stupid but like we’ve known each other for so long. I’m really bad at commitment. like. really bad. I don’t sleep around, but im bad at sticking around regardless of how many levels a relationship or dates have gone to. I’ve never been able to picture myself with someone for the long run, and anytime I’ve ever imagined a life with someone it’s always been him, or someone like him, or when I get married the spouse is faceless, but hes missing from my groomsmen.

its like it might be now or never but if its now its forever and im still a young woman finding her way in this world and wanna live and fuck up and explore but if i actually got with him…… i mean if we broke up id loose some of my closest friends and id loose HIM. but the problem is is that I can’t ever imagine leaving him. If I ever got with him I would never get with anyone else ever again. I didnt even think about what breaking up with him would cause until i started making this post. i’m so serious the thought didnt even cross my mind. i also have a crush on someone rn that started progressing the same day i like got the (insert hint from friends) and like with this one guy its just that i hadnt had sex since last august and hes hot and itd be easy and fun. GOD that man is hot. thing is, i could have this guy in my bed next week easy. i wont see this friend for at leatsa few. but deep down i know that with my friend, looking at him and lauging with him would have more meaning. just a kiss would be more fireworks than sex with anyone else could provide.

like I’m actually so afraid that I’m not giving the specifics of the situation or my age or anything like that because I just I’m so afraid to lose him or fuck up things with him and my friends. im also afriad to loose what might be my only opportunity. after we reconnected recently, I imagined that, if ever, after undergrad we would get together. its too fast and too soon and im too scared i dont wanna cry over him again because of what can never be. id never cried about someone like i did to him a while back knowing that i could never have him because of everything between us. 4 fucking years ago i cried over him. i mourned and accepted id never have him. i hadnt considered him as anything but a minute future possibility or something to accept until today.

I’m sorry for the nonsense post, I’m just at a loss. i hope i didnt say too much, im sorry i said probably too little. i dont know what to do with myself.