u/New_Equivalent_752

I have a 13 year old labrador retriever. I'm fairly certain he has peridontal disease and I feel horrible because I neglected getting his teeth cleaned for a good period of time a few years ago. He more than likely would need a a deep dental cleaning under anesthesia. Not only is the money a concern, but more so than that, the fear of him being put under anethesia freaks me out. Is the risk worth it?

I’m 28 and have lived in this city my whole life and my god, sometimes I feel like I’m going crazy. I have no friends or anything to do because it feels like everyone here just wants to start raising a family in their early 20s or they do nothing but drink on weekends. Also I’m not a huge sports guy and sports are big in this city. Is moving to a bigger city (Chicago, NYC, LA, etc) actually better? Sometimes I hear the saying “the grass isn’t always greener” but I really fail to see how anything could be worse than Indy.

EDIT: Just want to clarify I understand the things I mentioned here are gonna be everywhere (drinking, being family-oriented, etc. I moreso mean it feels like Indy lacks variety)

I've seen it recommended a little but it seems releatively smaller and more unknown. I watched Scotty West's AUG, but I'm to a point in my guitar journey where I DESPERATELY need some sort of structured practice and ways to put music together on my guitar. Will his course be good practice for me to apply theory?

I'm almost done watching Scotty West's AUG course. It has been AMAZING in terms of connecting the dots with music theory and getting it all in my head. But, since he has a lack of "assignments", I knew I'd need more structure to actually apply what I've learned.

I've been playing for 5-6 years now so I can physically play the guitar no problem, I just have had no idea how the fretboard actually works or how to tie theory into the instrument, which has made it very hard to write my own music. What course out there is best for actually having structured assignments to practice applying all this stuff?

I'm going through Scotty West's Absolutely Understand Guitar and it has been a game changer so far. I'm 13 or 14 episodes in and even though I haven't been doing a ton of extra stuff outside of just watching, music theory is clicking in a way I never expected and I'm genuinely excited to come home from work every day to learn more.

That being said, I know it's not enough to just watch. I want to start hammering down the concepts better in some way, especially now that we are getting into modes, intervals, and scales. I may watch the rest of the course first just to satisfy my own curiosity but regardless, I need to practice on the side at some point.

Just for context, I'm not a brand new guitarist, I've been playing for 6 years so I have the physical ability to play (so I don't need exercises for practicing that stuff), I just have ZERO clue about theory or the notes on the fret board.

I’ve only flown a handful of times and honestly I really liked it the first two occasions. The last time was 3 years ago tho and I flew again today and was so scared the whole time on both flights for some reason and I’m scared of flying back home in a few days. For me, statistics don’t work. I’ve seen so many accidents caused by pilot error or improper maintenance or ATC making a mistake. This is where my new found fear has come from. Not from fear of flying or not trusting the plane, but not trusting people. How can I get over this so I don’t worry about flying home? Because being told my odds are 1 in a million doesn’t help

Sorry if this is a dumb question but is there anywhere I can take my senior Labrador with arthritis to swim? Like I want to be able to put him in a life vest and hold him in the water so he can feel some relief in his hips. The only thing I can think of is the beach at the dunes but not sure if that would be a good option or not. Any recommendations are appreciated!

I have a chocolate lab who is turning 13 in 2 weeks. He’s been in my life since he was 8 weeks old and I love him more than words can describe. He’s overall still kicking really good with no major health issues. However, his mobility is really deteriorating. He slips and stumbles and trips far more than he used to. Struggles to stand. Can’t jump in the car, in my bed, on the couch, or go up or down stairs anymore. Also still tries to run a little bit bc he wants to but it definitely wears on him. (It’s not severe enough to where it’s hurting his quality of life yet). My point is, he’s at that age where nothing is guaranteed anymore. I picture my life a year from now and there’s a real possibility he won’t be in it by then. Bc of this, I have huge anticipation grief, almost feeling as if I’ve already lost him. This definitely allows me to cherish him more and try my best to be more present, but every day it feels like my time with him is running out and the thought of him no longer being with me makes me sad. I’m also going on a 4 day trip next week and this is gonna be my first time away from him in 3 years and his age makes it scarier for me because I wonder if something will happen while I’m gone. Any advice on coping will help.