u/New_Tonight490

Hi i have 2 questions i wanna get advice on.

first one is: I'm a 5' 10 bisexual closet femboy (by closet i mean never worn a fully feminine outfit in public or in front of anyone yet even myself) who has adhd and autism and i was wondering if say i ever got a date with someone be it male or female should i turn up in what i want to like in girls clothes or should i ask them if they'd feel comfortable with me turning up in girls clothes or do they want me in boys clothes as I'm like I don't wanna make someone uncomfortable by me turning up in girls clothes and the date immediately ends just as fast as it started what do you recommend I do

second one is: I have a girl at work I fancy she also has adhd like me and i was wondering if its acceptable for me to ask her out and if so how as all i know is i can use email or teams on my work computer as thats the only ways i know how to ask her out so is it a good idea to ask her out and if so how should i do it as dont wanna ask her face to face but still wanna ask her out on a proper date

any advice is greatly appreciated

I was wondering where I can get like weekend sewing classes near me sue to the fact I’ve not used a sewing machine in 2 years and wanna get the skills needed to actually see my own outfit for a pride event next year.

I live in Kincardine scotland and all classes I’ve seen online near me are like evenings on weekdays and that’s a problem for me as I work and the classes start like before I finish work can anyone help me with this?

Any help is greatly appreciated and welcome from anyone who can help in regards to my question

For context I wouldn’t exactly call myself a femboy but more of a boy who wears girls clothes at certian occasions or places like pride events or comic con and need help regarding clothes related to getting them and all that.

This question is more asked towards the British femboys among you but I wanna maybe buy and get girls swimwear like bikinis and swimsuits and have a few questions regarding this and my questions are:

What do I do about trying them to figure out my size I am as I only wanna try them on in shop changing rooms?

How would I wear them without having to wear swim shorts with them?

How would I find swim shorts that look feminine enough to wear with them if I need to or want to?

And lastly would you say I only wear swimsuits and not bikinis because I’m a bigger guy and have say a bit more meat in my bones and belly or would I just try to lose the weight until I feel confident in how I look to wear a bikini?

Any help is greatly appreciated