u/NewspaperMission195

I recently got into a relationship, and in the beginning I loved telling my friends about all the little things..funny conversations, dates, random moments, all of it.

My boyfriend has a bit of a past, and my friends know some of it. They don’t know everything, though, and they definitely don’t know all the conversations we’ve had or the things we’ve worked through together. Because of what they do know, they don’t really have the best opinion of him.

After a while, I noticed I stopped talking about him as much. Not because anything was wrong between us, but because I felt like every time I shared something, there’d be skepticism or I’d somehow end up feeling like I had to justify my relationship.

Recently, one of my closest friends asked why I never talk about him anymore. The thing is, whenever I tell her something nice about my relationship, she almost always says something like, “Well, that’s because you guys just started dating.” I get where she’s coming from, and I know she’s probably trying to keep me grounded. But after hearing that enough times, it just makes me not want to share anything at all.

Her own relationship has been really messy lately, and she’s told me before that the first few months of her relationship were amazing too. So I don’t know if that’s making her see mine through that lens. I don’t think she’s trying to be hurtful, and I know she’s looking out for me. I just miss feeling like I could tell her about the happy parts of my life without them immediately being met with doubt or a reality check.

What should I do?

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I’ve always had thin hair growing up but it was never something I thought I’d lose my sleep over. However, it’s gotten worse over these couple of months. It’s taking a toll on me mentally and it’s all I can think about. Some days are just too tough, like today. To the fellow women here, how do you cope? I’m terrified that the people I love would abandon me, especially my boyfriend. He’s got such thick hair lol. I also haven’t talked to him about this but I’m pretty sure he’s got a vague idea of what’s going on.

What do I do? all of this is just so unfair and I can’t really come to terms with the fact that i might be bald in a couple of years. Also the dermatologists I’ve been to are of no help. They don’t take my hair concerns seriously. I’m so done.

I’ve been dealing with acne since puberty and I’ve dealt with varying degrees of it for the past 10 years. I have kind of made peace with it at this point and my face isn’t as bad as it used to be. However, I’ve been breaking out a lot of my back and chest and there’s a lot of hyperpigmentation in that area so I decided to pay a visit to a govt hosp

I’ve been to so many dermatologist over the course of these years but nothing really has helped me. I’ve been put on tretinoin, doxycycline, clindamycin, adapalene, etc, but none of that has helped

Today she prescribed cliface foaming face wash along with a clindamycin and nicotinamide gel. She also told me not to use ANYTHING else, like NOTHING. I asked her specifically if sunscreen was okay and she said no, nothing other than the ones she said. I’m so confused because isn’t sunscreen essential?
I can’t afford to have another purging phase in my life I’m so over it I’d rather off myself than go through it once again

Any advice is appreciated.

this is an EXTREMELY sensitive topic for me pakshe ichiriyelum ashwasam kittathe ennorth ivde post cheyva

I’ve always had fine hair growing up pkshe I wasn’t really bothered by it for a very long time. however, post covid my hair density has reduced so so much and this year ayepo enik sathyathil mudi enn parayan onula. I used to try those hair thickening serums and all that & ippo fish oil um vit D oke edkunond pkshe ennalum mudiku velya maatam onum tonunila🫩 satyam prnja i can’t even put my hair up into a high bun or ponytail anymore so ipo mostly low bun il ang adjust cheyva, and it kills me everytime I have to do it.
I did go to a few dermatologists too for the same pakshe they all end up taking it lightly, oraal polum serious ayt ente problem consider cheytitilla.

I’m a woman too so njan extra emotional akum ee oru karyam verumbo. I feel like I’ll attain mottachi status in a few months. Some days are alright but chila divasam sahikilla, today is one of those days I guess.