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26 [F4M] Let’s go on fun dates? 🤓

Hi! I’m F26 and not sure if this is the right place for this, but it is what it is 😭

I’m single, 5’4 and a half 🌚, chinita (no, I’m not filchi 🤦🏻‍♀️), and I’d say I’m pretty slim. I do yoga and Pilates a lot, so it’d be nice if you’d be down to try them with me hahaha. I also love hiking, so pls at least be open to trying it too HAHAHA I’m pretty strict about this tbh.

I work in marketing with a 9–5 schedule, so it’d be nice if your sched is similar so weekday work won’t be an issue!

I’m mostly a homebody unless it’s for pilates, yoga, or work, though I do like going out to visit cafés, restaurants, and spend time in nature with my siblings and friends. I’m a huge foodie, and we LOVE speakeasies. I usually hang out with the same people too loool

I’m pretty chill honestly, unless it’s a night out with friends, because those are always chaotic HAHAHAHAHAHA

Would be nice if you’re taller than me too pls 😭 and preferably around 25–30!

Also open to meeting up irl eventually, but we definitely need to pass the vibe check first hahaha

PS. Don’t just say hi cause I’ll ignore it 🤦🏻‍♀️

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u/No-Broccoli-5670 — 13 hours ago

26 [F4M] Let’s go on fun dates? 🤓

Hi! I’m F26 and not sure if this is the right place for this, but it is what it is 😭

I’m single, 5’4 and a half 🌚, chinita (no, I’m not filchi 🤦🏻‍♀️), and I’d say I’m pretty slim. I do yoga and Pilates a lot, so it’d be nice if you’d be down to try them with me hahaha. I also love hiking, so pls at least be open to trying it too HAHAHA I’m pretty strict about this tbh.

I work in marketing with a 9–5 schedule, so it’d be nice if your sched is similar so weekday work won’t be an issue!

I’m mostly a homebody unless it’s for pilates, yoga, or work, though I do like going out to visit cafés, restaurants, and spend time in nature with my siblings and friends. I’m a huge foodie, and we LOVE speakeasies. I usually hang out with the same people too loool

I’m pretty chill honestly, unless it’s a night out with friends, because those are always chaotic HAHAHAHAHAHA

Would be nice if you’re taller than me too pls 😭 and preferably around 25–30!

Also open to meeting up irl eventually, but we definitely need to pass the vibe check first hahaha

PS. Don’t just say hi cause I’ll ignore it 🤦🏻‍♀️

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u/No-Broccoli-5670 — 13 hours ago

How do you stop being cynical and overly science-driven when it comes to love and relationships?

I’m F26, and I don’t really view love as a business deal, but more as a decision based on compatibility and factors rather than pure emotion. Not sure if this is a rant, a call for help, or maybe a mix of both? HAHAHA

I know I’m pretty. People have told me that a lot. I know I’m smart too, considering my GPA growing up. I have a career I genuinely love, an amazing support system from family and friends, hobbies I enjoy, and I actively do things that make me happy, so I don’t think self-love is the issue.

I guess the only thing “missing” is the relationship aspect. Whenever people ask why I don’t have a boyfriend, I usually just say I haven’t met someone I genuinely like yet. But honestly, it’s also because I don’t see relationships as necessary unless certain things align.

And maybe this is where the science brain kicks in. A lot of love honestly feels explainable to me. Attraction can be linked to biology and psychology, attachment styles shape how people behave in relationships, shared values affect long-term compatibility, and even lifestyle habits influence relationship satisfaction rates. Sometimes I wonder if I’ve over-rationalized love to the point where I struggle to see it as this magical, irrational thing people talk about. Like when people say “when you know, you know,” my brain immediately wants data, context, and variables lol

For me, attraction matters. If someone isn’t physically my type, I don’t really see the point in forcing it because it just feels icky. I tried dating someone who wasn’t my type once, and nope. The people who say “date someone outside your type” completely lied to me HAHAHA

Career fulfillment matters too. I dated someone who hated his job, and it felt like I was constantly absorbing existential crises I didn’t ask for. Unsurprisingly, we didn’t work out.

Family dynamics also matter to me. I once went on a date with someone who hated his family, and he kept questioning why I was so close with mine. That honestly felt bizarre to me.

So maybe I’m cynical when I say love doesn’t feel emotion-driven to me. It feels more like a combination of factors that either hit the mark or don’t. Maybe I’ll change my mind when I’m 36. Lol.

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u/No-Broccoli-5670 — 23 hours ago