u/No-Chocolate3667

Bonjour,

J'ai toujours voulu deux enfants, mon mari trois.

Cependant, depuis la naissance de mon deuxième enfant, l'envie d'un autre bébé me prend de plus en plus souvent.

Aujourd'hui, mon deuxième a 2 ans et 4 mois et je pense être prête à tenter l'expérience, mais je suis paralysée. J'ai trop peur que ce ne soit pas la bonne décision pour ma famille. J'ai peur de mes propres réactions ; je sais que je peux paniquer à l'idée d'être enceinte et, en même temps, chaque mois, je rêve d'être enceinte !

Pour celles qui ont eu un troisième enfant, avez-vous vraiment paniqué en l'apprenant ?

Je me demande s'il est normal d'éprouver autant d'émotions contradictoires.

En même temps, si je n'essaie pas, je sais que je le regretterai toute ma vie. Au fait, je viens d'avoir 38 ans, alors je ne peux plus attendre…

Ce que je souhaite, c'est vivre ma grossesse sereinement, sans stress ni angoisse… Quelqu'un a-t-il déjà été dans ma situation ? Si oui, comment avez-vous fait ?

Hi,

I always wanted two children, my husband three. However, since my second was born, it happens more and more often that I want another baby. Today my second is 2 years and 4 months old and I think I'm ready to try another one but I'm paralyzed I'm too afraid that it's not the right decision for my family. I'm afraid of myself of my reactions, I know I can really panic at the idea of getting pregnant and at the same time every month I dream of being pregnant!! For those who had a third, did you really panic when you found out? I wonder if it's normal to feel so many ambivalent feelings. At the same time if I don't try I know I'll regret it all my life. By the way I just turned 38 so I can't wait too long...

what I want is to live a pregnancy in peace not by being overwhelmed panicked anxious... Has anyone been in my situation? If so, what did you do?

Hi,

I always wanted two children, my husband three. However, since my second was born, it happens more and more often that I want another baby. Today my second is 2 years and 4 months old and I think I'm ready to try another one but I'm paralyzed I'm too afraid that it's not the right decision for my family. I'm afraid of myself of my reactions, I know I can really panic at the idea of getting pregnant and at the same time every month I dream of being pregnant!!

For those who had a third, did you really panic when you found out? I wonder if it's normal to feel so many ambivalent feelings. At the same time if I don't try I know I'll regret it all my life. By the way I just turned 38 so I can't wait too long...

what I want is to live a pregnancy in peace not by being overwhelmed panicked anxious... Has anyone been in my situation? If so, what did you do?

Hi,

I always wanted two children, my husband three. However, since my second was born, it happens more and more often that I want another baby. Today my second is 2 years and 4 months old and I think I'm ready to try another one but I'm paralyzed I'm too afraid that it's not the right decision for my family. I'm afraid of myself of my reactions, I know I can really panic at the idea of getting pregnant and at the same time every month I dream of being pregnant!! For those who had a third, did you really panic when you found out? I wonder if it's normal to feel so many ambivalent feelings. At the same time if I don't try I know I'll regret it all my life. By the way I just turned 38 so I can't wait too long...

what I want is to live a pregnancy in peace not by being overwhelmed panicked anxious... Has anyone been in my situation? If so, what did you do?

Hi,

I would like to know for those who have had melasma induced by pregnancy, has melasma worsened with the following pregnancies? Did you have more spots as you had pregnancies?

Thanks