u/No-Clue-1903

She recently rsvpd us for an event without telling me. My husband says he and her talked about it before she did it but I don’t think they did because she sent me an email telling me about it while he was working. She works for my husband so she has access to his email. But this isn’t the first time she’s done this she also signed my baby up for something with my husband. They had to pick a cute slogan for the baby and stuff that I thought would be fun to do with him. But they did it before I could even talk to him about signing the baby up. Like if it was even something he’d be interested in. They didn’t even ask me if it was something I’d be comfortable with. Which I was but just feels weird like another person is in our relationship. I talked to him about it how this isn’t the first time she’s done this. And he just said he agreed she shouldn’t tell me before he’s had a chance to tell me. But what if I wanted to be the one to rsvp. And see what the event even was. What would you do?

She recently rsvpd us for an event without telling me. My husband says he and her talked about it before she did it but I don’t think they did because she sent me an email telling me about it while he was working. She works for my husband so she has access to his email. But this isn’t the first time she’s done this she also signed my baby up for something with my husband. They had to pick a cute slogan for the baby and stuff that I thought would be fun to do with him. But they did it before I could even talk to him about signing the baby up. Like if it was even something he’d be interested in. They didn’t even ask me if it was something I’d be comfortable with. Which I was but just feels weird like another person is in our relationship. I talked to him about it how this isn’t the first time she’s done this. And he just said he agreed she shouldn’t tell me before he’s had a chance to tell me. But what if I wanted to be the one to rsvp. And see what the event even was. What would you do?

I had a baby 8 months ago. But i am not sure he was attracted to me that much before I got pregnant. We don't have as much sex as I would like. He works alot so he's tired sometimes which I get. But aren't guys supposed to be horny? He also has like rules for sex. He only wants to do it at night because he gets sleepy after. So we can't do it during the day unless its a blow job he will accept. After work I try to put the baby to sleep before our bed time do we can have alone time he just sits on his phone. Just curious if other guys are like this also or if he's just not attracted to me?

I (F27) am 8 months postpartum and have been struggling with feeling confident in my body. I am the heaviest I have ever been. I am currently trying to lose weight but it doesn't happen over night. At first I was just trying to give my body grace after everything its been through but recently started to work on it. I have a big belly now and its covered in stretch marks. I was not skinny before being pregnant but atleast my stomach was flat. Im hoping I can some how lessen the stretch marks. I haven't showed my(M33) boyfriend my body yet. We have had sex but I never was fully naked. My sex drive has always been higher then his but I feel like he doesn't wanna have sex with me anymore. He does work alot so I can understand him being tired but this past weekend we didnt have sex either. Pretty much we dont have sex if hes also working so when its the weekend I like to atleast try to. I also told him I miss sex before the weekend started thinking he'd get the hint. Im hoping he will becoming more attracted to me if I lose weight. Just been really depressed about it.