u/No-Membership-6649 — reddlx

Am I overreacting?

Every summer holiday my parents and siblings/their significant others all go to my grandfathers lake house. My grandfather doesn't like people of color, (fyi my wife's a person of color.) My grandfather banned me from ever returning because of this very reason. Not exaggerating. I feel pretty disregarded that my family still goes for 4th of July and Labor Day. They don't invite us or mention it it's just a quiet thing they plan without me and my wife. How toxic is this truly because to me it just feels like I'm not important enough to even consider.

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u/No-Membership-6649 — 1 day ago

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Trench drains? Or other route.

I have a 2ft wide sidewalk that spans my homes foundation. Problem is it's slightly tilted towards the home so some water pools in that area. I was gonna lay some trench drains along side the sidewalk and foundation any advice? I won't have grading but the water will have a place to move to. There will be about 6" of dirt between the trench drains and the wall of the home.

u/No-Membership-6649 — 1 day ago

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Right move?

I have a 2020 Ford ranger with 98k miles, since I'm close to 100k I'm tuning it up and was gonna do a drain and fill on the trans and coolant, they tried pushing a BG flush but ive heard those are very risky at high mileage. Anyone have any input?

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u/No-Membership-6649 — 2 months ago