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My husband, 10 yr old daughter and Mother in law are heading to Sheboygan this Friday, staying through Monday. We love nature ( but I’ve heard Kohler Andre is a shitshow on the weekends so we’re skipping that), water good food( my kid loves ramen), beer and cool shops. I’d love recommendations for family/ cool things to do in the area that could entertain us Saturday & Sunday ( weather looks great)!

Not huge museum people.

Can you really surf in Sheboygan? I’d love input on that too.

Thank you!

My husband is a great dad to our 10 year old daughter( our only) . He Has always been “ hands on” and really loves being a dad. But. He’s ALWAYS HER BUDDY. 85% I’m the one making her clean her room, taking away her tablet, making her turn off the TV, pick up her shit, etc. His favorite line when things get heated is “ listen to your mom”. He never raises his voice and is not annoyed by her whining and what I perceive as ungratefulness.

Example: tonight we were watching a show in the living room. I told her tablet time was over and she begins whining that she’s bored. So instantly, my husband offers to turn on whatever SHE wants to watch, because his forbid, she be uncomfortable for one damn minute and it’s our problem to entertain her 24/7. It infuriates me. He packs her lunch every morning. He jumps up when she says she’s hungry. It’s ridiculous.

I find myself resenting him and feeling like I’m stuck doing most of the discipline & implementing consequences because I’m not trying to raise an entitled adult. I love my daughter and overall she is a good kid, but I feel like she’s been so catered to and the real world isn’t going to kiss her ass like her dad and she needs to be more independent.

Can anyone else relate?

I’m feeling so frustrated because I feel like he doesn’t back me up and I’m always the bad guy.