u/NoReaction8949

The craving I have for this woman is unreal. We have been dating for a year now and istg every single day I want her more. It feels like the love spells from the romantic movies were put on me.
My first relationship ever so everything I know about myself in a relationship was bcos of her.

I COULD EAT HER THE WHOLE DAY EVERYDAY. 24/7, EVERY DAY OF THE WEEK AND EVERY WEEK OF THE MONTH AND EVERY MONTH OF THE YEAR.

Holy shit. I’m sorry if I’m coming off a little too obsessive. BUT! Her taste, her sounds, her body language. I just can’t keep myself in check.

This post is about me fully obsessed with my woman. Thank you.

I just love my girlfriend. I’m her biggest fan ever. We are mid 20s, almost a year together and I just love every single moment I have with her. Every month, every week I think I can’t fall for her any further but here I am going deeper and deeper.

She is the most amazing person in my life. Love feels softer, easier, like I am just surrounded by clouds every second of the day. She makes me feel loved, cared for, valued and everything a person can ask for. Every day I try and give her the same amount of love and affection I get and just hope I succeed.

Every single time she looks at me I feel like a little girl watching fairytales. I giggle, smile, laugh. She’s making me blush just by existing.

She deserves everything and anything in this life and I hope I can give that to her. It’s good to be in love.

We live in a homophobic country where going outside is still sometimes unsafe and I was just thinking about our story since it’s pride month. Sometimes our kisses and greeting need to be in private. Sometimes she is introduced as a friend and sometimes we let each other’s hand go when people look at us weirdly. But we still love each other, we still found each other and we still have an amazing and wonderful love story.

So I guess the post is just me saying happy pride month to all the LESBIANS

Why on Earth am I seeing at least a post a day saying something about men and bisexuals and lesbians complaining. MY SISTER IN CHRIST WHEN YOU DECIDED TO DATE A BISEXUAL YOU BROUGHT MEN INTO THE PICTURE. WHY ARE YOU SURPRISED???

Yes you can date bisexuals but be prepared for bringing men back into your life. Bisexual means that those people are attracted to men. They gonna look at men, talk about men, befriend men, say if a guy is attractive, talk about actors, have crushes, have exes have MEN in their lives. If you can’t handle that just simply don’t date bisexuals.

I’m tired of lesbians coming here and venting about bisexuals liking men. If you can’t handle it, that’s okay. If you don’t want men in your life that’s okay too. But don’t be surprised by the OBVIOUS.

Edit: I made this post in defence of bisexuals. They are valid, they exist and they can love whoever they want. If you are a lesbian and you want your bisexual partner to change because you deny their sexuality and can’t fathom that they are attracted to men then CONGRATULATIONS you are no better than any other homophobe.

So we started dating a year ago, together 8 months. We are mid 20s, fully committed monogamous relationship. We started meeting 1 time per week or every 10 days and I told her that we only live 25 minutes away (in the same city) and eventually I would like to meet more. That’s cool we started meeting 2-3 times per week and eventually spending 4 days together which is I think normal. For me the deeper you fall in love the more you want to spend time with your SO and slowly testing out living together situations, merging your life together etc. Now in the past few months we both had stressful situations and I wanted to lean on her, find comfort in her and just have that connection and peace provided by your partner. She was pulling away when I offered the same comfort and support for her. We are back meeting 1-2 times a week or not even seeing each other for 2 weeks. And it’s because she makes plans with her friends or alone and just informs me about them when she is leaving the house. Like “yeah I’m gonna go away for 3 days “ and the next message is “sorry I’m already going out but it’s actually 1-2 weeks we can see each other after or call if you want”.
I’m not trying to be controlling. Go out, do whatever I’m fully supportive of you having your own life - but I think this still should be better communicated?

I constantly hear that’s she loves me and so happy and grateful for this relationship and how everyone thinks we are the blueprint of a healthy couple.

Still even if she gets back after a week or so I’m not the first person she wants to call. She plans hangouts with her friends, family and in a few days me.

When we are together her friends (roommates) constantly interrupt us and she is the first to jump and do whatever they ask for. During our quality time.

When we are not together she sends me messages about how our future should look like. I DONT WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT, I WANT TO BUILD IT - but for that we would actually need to be together.

I’m not feeling connected, when she goes away it’s like she doesn’t even exist. It’s like she is a fever dream.

I know that the only resolution is to talk to her and have a conversation but I’m just afraid. As I said she is currently going through something and I feel like a POS for wanting more attention. But at the same time I’m going through something too and I need my partner.

And even if I ask for time it’s changed because I asked for it. I WANT HER TO WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH ME.