u/No_Bat_2726

Am I too easy for my boyfriend ? Me ( F20) and my bf (M21) only see each other about twice a week and those two days I’m always trying to have sex and make the most of it because did we don’t we have to wait another week. Yes, I know, there’s more to a relationship than sex, but there is nothing exciting about my life. I love him to death and he is my best friend but I really don’t have any other friends. I don’t party. We don’t even go out. So these two days I look forward to and I’m especially excited when we drink. When we drink, we just do it in my room and have fun. But our whole relationship I’ve felt like I’ve always been the easy one. I’m always the one initiating sex. If he does initiate I always say yes. For two reasons, because I want to and also because sometimes I worry about him leaving after being w me unsatisfied. Tonight I invited him over and it was clear why. I was kissing on him and he was just stiff and serious. When I asked why he said he wasn’t looked forward to work. Granted he does work overnights but it just sucks. I tried to tell him to just relax and be present but he wasn’t feeling it. Once he left it just made me think about how easy access I am to him. I’ve tried to not be so easy but I can’t help it sometimes. I feel like he doesn’t get excited to have sex with me or feels anticipation because he just knows he’ll get it. But you know who wonders if I’ll get some? Me. And it just feel so backwards to me idk why. I feel so easy.

Any advice please. I can’t afford a gyno rn and I’ve been dealing w this for a while when I used to have the opposite problem :( I’m only in my 20s and I’m on no medication. Please please please.

Has anyone else dealt with this? I almost never get wet, even when I’m turned on. This has been bothering me for a long time and I’m hoping someone here has experienced something similar.

I’m 20, and I almost never get naturally wet during sex or foreplay. It doesn’t matter if I’m really attracted to my boyfriend or genuinely in the mood. Sometimes I really do want to have sex and I’m mentally into it but my body just doesn’t cooperate. We almost always have to use lube or spit. ( I know I know spit isn’t ideal ) What confuses me is that this wasn’t always the case. Before high school, I used to get really wet with no problem and for no apparent reason. Then sometime during high school it just changed and it’s been like that ever since. I’m not on any medications and I’m not taking birth control either.

The weird part is that around ovulation I’ll sometimes notice clear slippery discharge when I wipe after using the bathroom. Seeing that actually makes me feel relieved because it showed me that my body is capable of producing lubrication. It just rarely happens when I’m actually being intimate.
I’ve started wondering if something else could be going on.

I can’t afford to see a gynecologist, so I’m hoping to hear from anyone who’s gone through this. Is there anything I can try at home? Has anything helped you?
I’d really appreciate any advice or personal experiences. It’s been affecting my confidence.

Has anyone else dealt with this? I almost never get wet, even when I’m turned on. This has been bothering me for a long time and I’m hoping someone here has experienced something similar.

I’m 20, and I almost never get naturally wet during sex or foreplay. It doesn’t matter if I’m really attracted to my boyfriend or genuinely in the mood. Sometimes I really do want to have sex and I’m mentally into it but my body just doesn’t cooperate. We almost always have to use lube or spit. ( I know I know spit isn’t ideal ) What confuses me is that this wasn’t always the case. Before high school, I used to get really wet with no problem and for no apparent reason. Then sometime during high school it just changed and it’s been like that ever since. I’m not on any medications and I’m not taking birth control either.

The weird part is that around ovulation I’ll sometimes notice clear slippery discharge when I wipe after using the bathroom. Seeing that actually makes me feel relieved because it showed me that my body is capable of producing lubrication. It just rarely happens when I’m actually being intimate.
I’ve started wondering if something else could be going on.

I can’t afford to see a gynecologist, so I’m hoping to hear from anyone who’s gone through this. Is there anything I can try at home? Has anything helped you?
I’d really appreciate any advice or personal experiences. It’s been affecting my confidence.

Has anyone else dealt with this? I almost never get wet, even when I’m turned on. This has been bothering me for a long time and I’m hoping someone here has experienced something similar.

I’m 20, and I almost never get naturally wet during sex or foreplay. It doesn’t matter if I’m really attracted to my boyfriend or genuinely in the mood. Sometimes I really do want to have sex and I’m mentally into it but my body just doesn’t cooperate. We almost always have to use lube or spit. ( I know I know spit isn’t ideal ) What confuses me is that this wasn’t always the case. Before high school, I used to get really wet with no problem and for no apparent reason. Then sometime during high school it just changed and it’s been like that ever since. I’m not on any medications and I’m not taking birth control either.

The weird part is that around ovulation I’ll sometimes notice clear slippery discharge when I wipe after using the bathroom. Seeing that actually makes me feel relieved because it showed me that my body is capable of producing lubrication. It just rarely happens when I’m actually being intimate.
I’ve started wondering if something else could be going on.

I can’t afford to see a gynecologist, so I’m hoping to hear from anyone who’s gone through this. Is there anything I can try at home? Has anything helped you?
I’d really appreciate any advice or personal experiences. It’s been affecting my confidence.