u/No_Divide_8484

Kao neko od 20 godina, kome je dosta teško da se udeblja, bilo šta bi bilo od pomoći, nikada nisam imao iskustva s aktivnim treniranjem više puta sedmično, uvijek sam bio smotan, ne znam lopte da bacim🤣.

Naravno sve više osjetim posljedice sedentarnog života te sam počeo da vozim bajs češče, uglavnom hodam svuda i želim da uvedem neki trening.

Zanimaju me neke vaše lične početničke rutine, koliko ste brzo napredovali u formi, kako dobiti na kilogramima, benefiti koje ste osjetili i slično.

Jeste li ikada naišli na dečka, razgovarali s njim, sviđate se jedan drugom potencijalno i za relationship. Razuman je, otvoreno priča, razumijemo se, često pričamo o svemu što nas zanima, zbog odsustva ne možemo da se skontamo kad da se vidimo.

Idalje nismo dogovorili tačno, ali približi se momenat da treba uživo da se vidimo, potenciram da isplaniramo nešto i on nije online već 3 dana. E pa to se meni upravo desilo.

What??? Kako odgovoriti uopšte na ovu situaciju? Nije me blokirao, obrisao profil i slično, živ je nadam se🤷🏻‍♂️. Da li je nesiguran ali ne želi da me povrijedi?

Haj gajz, ovde cete procitati par mojih dozivljaja preko dating aplikacija, krajnje uzasnih. Rekao bih da je mozda korisno za nekog ko se prvi put odlucuje da se pojavi na takvom mjestu, da zna kakvog svijeta ima🙂.

Osudjujte me, ali, povremeno kada mi se javi neki takav volim da odem down the rabbit hole, kratko da procaskam da vidim gdje ce razgovor da me odnese. I svaki put cujem nesto sto sam mislio da nikad necu cuti. PS ne zamajavam nikog sa fotkama, laznim upoznavanjima i slicno, privedem sve kraju.

1. Momak tridesetak godina, javio mi se zbog moje profilne, kaze da voli momke u dvadesetima, i da imam fine noge. Zapravo je sve fino pocelo jer je decko iznenadjujuce jako jako ripped i nastavili smo da pricamo (imao sam neki interes za njega, hookup only). Kroz razgovor preplavio me je sa slikama svog six-packa i nudes-ima, a ubrzo mi je i poslao sliku lica (kroz fucking 15 minuta) koju niti sam trazio niti sam imao dovoljno povjerenja da uopste pokusamo da se vidimo lice u lice. Takodje u slikama koje je slao jasno su se vidjela lica nekih njegovih prijatelja, clanova porodice, kod kuce, na nekom slavlju, na bazenu??? Uslijedila je jedna fotografija gdje se vidi njegov mladji brat (vrlo je moguce da je tinejdzer idalje). Spomenuo je kako voli momke slicne njemu, kako ga podsjecam na njega, kako bi i njega "kresnuo" ali steta sto mu je brat. Rekao mi je da se suzdrzava da ga otrese od kurca. Zavrsio sam razgovor s njim momentalno.
2. Javio mi se neki samonazvani daddy type, u kasnim cetrdesetim. Ovo se dogodilo negdje na samom pocetku kada sam tek dospio na romeo. Visok 200cm, jako ogroman covjek, jako izrazena ledja, misicav, nekako tipican balkanac. Nakon sto sam vjerovatno razgovarao kao razumno ljudsko bice, rekao je kako voli poslusne "pickaste" momke, koji mu ne pametuju i osudjuju ga (ozenjen je logicno). Usljedilo je par dick pickova na kojima se vidi zenska saka s uradjenim noktima (cudan izbor za poslati), ostale fotke su u kupatilu gdje se vide zenski preparati i cetkice za zube (ima porodicu). Jedna koja mi je posebno zapala za oko je bila u ogledalu. Ogledalo je bilo na vratima ormara, u odrazu vidjela se kvaka od ulaznih vrata u sobu s djecijom torbicom, ruksacicem, igrackom ne sjecam se sigurno. Ubrzo je poceo neki pokusaj manipulacije gdje me je pitao jesam li jedinac, imam li brata sestru stagod? Nisam mnogo promislio i rekao sam da imam sestru. Nakon toga razgovor je otisao totalno drugom smjeru, pokusao je da me navede na neki suptilan nacin da se oprobam u zenskom donjem vesu i slicno, da uzmem sestrine gace kada ona ne bude tu. Do ovde sam se vec istraumirao i naucio lekciju.
3. Momak 29 godina, javio mi se prije neki dan i trazio je hookup. Prijatan razgovor u prvih 5 minuta. Dao mi je par komplimenata, djelovao je oke. Spominjao je kako mu se svidjaju mrsaviji momci. Stvari su posle naopako kada je poceo da prica o proslim iskustvima i poceo je da cinkari ljude koji su mu se javljali. Bio je dosta obdaren, te je rekao kako obicno svi pocnu da pisaju kada udje u njih, dobro stimulira prostatu i svi svrse hands-free. Spomenuo je dva decka koja su mu se javila, iz obliznjeg grada, citiram: "Sitnica 2011 godiste, obojica 15 godina, vitki, mrsavi, nevini, nema boljeg, ne zna se koji je vise hot. Kaze mali jebo bi me, ma kad ga ja naguzim, zajeban mali". Vilica mi je pala do poda. Otisao je na blok kao i prethodni.

Izmjenili su gotovo sve opcije vezano za PZT (posebno za tebe). Primjera radi plaćao sam 30gb neta 30 dana 8KM koji mi je trajao taman toliko, sada je 40gb 15dana za 12.5KM! Čisti bezobrazluk. Čak su i blago izmjenili redovne opcije za kupovinu interneta. PZT je postao užasno neisplativ. Ne znam kakva im je ovo nova taktika i da li ovime potenciraju da svi pređu na pretplate (što posebno ne odgovara studentima recimo).

Stvarno se razmišljam da pređem na supernovu ili haloo i zapalim ovaj mtel broj. Ne mogu da vjerujem koliko deru narod a ne rade ništa živo.

Koje stvari vam padaju na pamet kada je u pitanju Republika Srpska? Može da bude bilo šta, njeni gradovi, priroda, životinje, biljke, objekti, istorija, nošnja, folkor, vrijeme, hrana, običaj, priča...

ako bi ste mogli da izdvojite neku stvar, šta bi to bilo?

pls suzdržite se na ironiji😭😭😭

The dream started with me sitting in the back seat, just being on my phone while my uncle (my moms brother) was driving. I don't know what the backstory was and where we were going but I think I remember the part of town where he lives and also a border crossing.

My uncle is generally known to be smart, educated electrical engineer, handy, knows to repair anything, hard working, he doesn't have his family but he always took care of my moms and aunts kids (my brothers and sisters).

Everything was normal until we were talking and slowly the conversation went about sexual life/dating... Mind you I'm an adult in my early 20s while he is in his 50s now. I don't remember who started, or asked the question, or what who of us said but it kinda went on about me and him having fun together. Precisely, me sucking him in a car, giving it a go, atleast considering it, talking it trough if we are both okay with it, and that there is nooooothing weird about that. We will just have a quick fun and thats it. It would be my first time doing anything with a man. We negotiated and I kind of agreed? It's like both sides wanted it but didn't want being weird and awkward to even ask such a thing.

We continued driving and we picked up grandpa who was sitting in the front passenger seat. I knew we had to arrive somewhere and eventually pick him up. Basically that kept us from doing anything, in the meantime it brought so much excitement in me.

The moment I woke up I was terrified and disgusted and felt dizzy. I had a slow morning, I'm at home the whole day so I calmed down. I was so weirded out like why was it happening? It made me think about if people make decisions in dreams like they would in real life, or do dreams just sort of "control us".

My day was kinda weird because of this, I had to let this out of me. I don't think my uncle is gay. But I have no idea why would I dream about incest and him. He is not like that. I'm kind of addicted to porn, and I still fight that addiction, maybe it's from all the morbid atrocities from there, roleplays, "fetishes" etc. I wanna stop with it so bad. I feel like it's messing with my head. I've seen a lot of people talking about the struggle of porn addiction and what it does to the brain (literally changes the chemistry of the brain), like I hope whatever has happened to me is fixable.

Sorry I had to ask I don't have experience🤡

Is there anything I should look out for?

How should my cleaning process look like? deep douching or not?

For a long time I wanted to try anything. Wasted a lot of time on dating apps, looking for nothing, until now.

Found a muscular 49 year old top, I'm 20 btw, never had any experience with men at all. He wants to meet today, on a parking lot, having a small drive in his car and talking. He is really attractive, don't know his background, but we know we both want sex, and thats all.

The problem is my heart is pounding all day because of it. I can't be chill about it. Like I know I want it so bad, but at the same time i'm so terrified. I'm not outed yet, so it's the first time someone is gonna know i'm gay. I don't know if I fear him or if somebody is gonna see us talking, whatever..

How chill should I be about this? Did you have similar experiences? Is it a big deal?

I've been using a hair removal cream for a long time, which does a great job, but I wanted to try waxing, for the results that last longer.

I'm not that hairy person honestly, I tried some on my leg, booty cheek, and it wasn't so bad. But when I tried a little finger sized wax strip near my 🍌 area, I almost DIED. And it barely took 10 hairs, but it hurt so so much. Felt like my skin was ripped off.

I'm curious to know how did you guys do it yourself? I'm looking for some proven and tested stuff. I heard some people using tatto gel (It's a gel used after tattoing to ease itching I think, and I heard it has numbing properties).

Kakvo je vaše mišljenje na temu ove zavisnosti i šta mislite koliko je ovo zapravo ozbiljna stvar?

Kakva je bila vaša situacija?

Dugi niz godina ovo postala skoro pa svakodnevnica, ovo je stvar koja se opasno igra sa osjećanjima i raspoloženjem. Definitivno vidim lose efekte a i dobre kada ne gledam duže vrijeme i masturbiram na iste... jako je teško prestati...

I've already seen a few posts on this topic so let's try.

I'm pretty sure it's a cartoon, not a series, at least as far as I remember. The art style was similar to some anime but I'm not sure if it was anime, let's say like avatar the last airbender which had that vibe but definitely not anime, something like that. Everything was dark and mysterious.

I was born in 2005, let's say I watched it around 2010. I think it must have been among the older films, like something from 2000.

I remember that the main character was a child, I don't remember if it was a boy or a girl, and I remember that the main character found a friend in some old town, maybe they had a dog with them. The town was small, ancient, all made of stone, small houses, paved with stone, reminds me of something from earth kingdom from avatar.

What I remember about that cartoon is a big statue that comes to life and starts chasing them around that city in the middle of the night. Darkness, a full moon, fog, a huge statue whose feet are literally the size of a house. They are running away from him all the time, sneaking while his loud footsteps are heard echoing, I still clearly remember the sound and how scared I was🤣.

The next thing I remember, which probably happened at the end of the movie, is a big fire that caught some forest where the characters were. I remember how they were saving themselves and still running away. It's dark again, the forest, a sudden fire, everything is orange. I guess the plot of the movie was a search for someone or something?!

I've already seen a few posts on this topic so let's try.

I'm pretty sure it's a cartoon, not a series, at least as far as I remember. The art style was similar to some anime but I'm not sure if it was anime, let's say like avatar the last airbender which had that vibe but definitely not anime, something like that. Everything was dark and mysterious.

I was born in 2005, let's say I watched it around 2010. I think it must have been among the older films, like something from 2000.

I remember that the main character was a child, I don't remember if it was a boy or a girl, and I remember that the main character found a friend in some old town, maybe they had a dog with them. The town was small, ancient, all made of stone, small houses, paved with stone, reminds me of something from earth kingdom from avatar.

What I remember about that cartoon is a big statue that comes to life and starts chasing them around that city in the middle of the night. Darkness, a full moon, fog, a huge statue whose feet are literally the size of a house. They are running away from him all the time, sneaking while his loud footsteps are heard echoing, I still clearly remember the sound and how scared I was🤣.

The next thing I remember, which probably happened at the end of the movie, is a big fire that caught some forest where the characters were. I remember how they were saving themselves and still running away. It's dark again, the forest, a sudden fire, everything is orange. I guess the plot of the movie was a search for someone or something?!

Ne znam da li je do toga jer sam iz bosne, ali kad god probam da napravim nalog ne mogu da potvrdim koristenjem broja telefona.

Unesem mail, sifru, potom broj da dobijem kod ali kad god ukucam broj ne zeli da prihvati (prihvata samo brojeve, bez ikakvih znakova). Onda odem na login opciju na webu i kaze da nalog postoji i ponovo mi trazi potvrdu broja koja idalje ne radi. Na email adresu ne dobijem nista🤷🏻‍♂️✨️.

I was working in a grocery store one summer break and some gay customer came up to me from behind, touched my waist and shoulder briefly. He asked me how I was and where can he find chocolate milk. He was incredibly nice and good looking. He had a big smile and was so positive. I was shivering literally. FROZE. I was thinking omg this has never happened. I wanna be your choco milk. I feel like he obviooously knew where the fridges were, he just wanted to ask me. I never seen him since...🤔

How confident are you in doing these things? how do you do it? They are risky, how did he know I was gay and also i'm surprised he was into twinks. I'm a bit shy and I just caaan't play with fire. Btw also my country is a bit conservative.

I don't think we have much of a common ground you know🤣.

Growing up I used to have a male friend group. It was our ganggg as we used to call it. All of those friends ended up being really awful at the end of the day.

In the teenage years and now in uni I only managed to be friends with girls as I am not afraid to be comfortable around them. Straight dudes from my class are somehow just kinda boring, I have no idea what to talk with them, and there are no gays, or I think🫣. I don't know if they are really that boring and uncool or the problem is me and some childhood trauma that I need to resolve because I had a really toxic male friends. I generally struggle with men.

Any of you in the same situation?