u/No_Poet5307

I went to a concert with some friends where we ran into one of our friends who brought along his new roommates. One guy was pretty cute but when he asked our names, he turned around and stopped talking to us when it was my turn to say my name.

Throughout rhe rest of the concert I saw him turn and look or glance at me like 10 times probably before the crowd shifted and he was standing behind me, so i couldn't see him anymore.

Is this a sign he might think im attractive, or is he just a jerk? Would a guy ignore a girl he finds cute?

I'm just curious as someone who more recently has become FA (used to just be anxious) having been in a long term relationship before, having a crush on my close friend who is also FA, who has never been in one.

Im curious how being an FA affects people who don't have dating experience, so i would love your perspective!

We've been friends for 7 years now, I got out of a long term relationship a year and a half ago and have been healing from it. Friend and I have gotten very close since my breakup. He's entirely inexperienced dating wise, so I don't think he's likely to make a move if he likes me.

We hang out individually very often, and we see each other 2 or 3 times a week. We always sit next to each other, and have so much fun together.

I love being his friend. I think a relationship could be even better, but I'm ok just being friends if he doesn't feel the same. I want to ask if he's ever thought about us being more, but also tell him that i love the friendship if not so there's no pressure. Is this a good idea? Do you have any advice about how I go about this?

TL;DR I have feelings for my close friend and could use advice about admitting I'd be interested in more, but love our friend ship as is if not.