u/No_Professional_3574

Original post : https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/FyoWGSwPh6

So I had a conversation with Dylan's parents about how he hasn't paid for anything and has been freeloading. They have paid Dylan's share of the money since he moved in and they are now staying at a hotel.

I haven't really talked to Dylan since he is at work. And after Rachel comes back from her hometown I'll give her an ultimatum and if she doesn't comply, which she most likely won't because she doesn't like Dylan paying for stuff, I'll have both of them move out.

I'm currently searching for a new roommate too. Thank you everyone for all your suggestions and insights, I really appreciate it :)

A few things I wanna address here

1. I understand that I haven't been firm and didn't take a stand that's why the situation escalated so much. Though I have a hard time saying no, I have been trying to be more solid about my boundaries and confronting people.

2. I saw a few comments about why I'm using American names etc so about that, I'm from India (I mentioned earlier that I'm from an Asian country) I wanted my post to reach more people have their insights that's why I used English names and also because a lot of people use reddit including my friends so I wanted to be anonymous without revealing too much :) Dylan is a name I got off of the show Modern Family since I was watching it yesterday, and I have an actual friend called Rachel so I used that name, the people I've talked about, their initials are in real D and R.

And a lot of people in India have "English names" with local surnames especially the part of India I'm from (I'm from Northeast India, Indians will know about this!) so sorry if the names didn't sound Indian enough which got some people confused :)

Edit : Some people are thinking that I made up everything so I just wanna say that you can check out my profile and the things I post and the communities I post in. This is probably my first post talking about something like this. So no, it's not fake, it happened, I got into this situation, I'm getting myself out of it!

I'm 22F and live about 2000km away from home because of University, I'm majoring in Forensic Science, I get to come home every 6 months or sometimes a year. Currently I'm back home for semester break and my father just doesn't like to see me rest or have fun. My classes are in the morning so I've to wake up at 5 am everyday and I'm not a morning person at all so you can guess how that goes for me. Now that I'm home and I got no classes or anything for a month I want to sleep a little and apparently my father has a problem with that. He comes to my room, opens the curtains so the sun hit my face, switches off the fan and keeps yelling. He hates to see me go out and catch up with my friends or cousins and has a problem with the way I dress, even if I just wear a simple top and jeans, I'm naturally curvy so he thinks I dress "too scandalous" he still has a grudge over the fact that I've piercings and tattoos. Since childhood I've always been a straight A student, even now my gpa never drops below 8-9 point yet he isn't satisfied. No matter what i do he's never proud of me I've accepted it.