u/Nogg1r

I was listening to a podcast where a aap woman was talking about her essentially being a chaser for male agps. In short the dynamic seem to be that she wants to be the male in the relationship but still is to androphilic to actually appreciate a real woman, but to aap to take on a fem role in a traditional heterosexual relationship. She still really wants the D though so the agps become a good middle way.

This made me think of gamp men. They are usually quite masculine men who desperately want a D but could never be with a real man so to speak. I would usually think of these men as clearly gynephilic. Doesn't this mean that they are actually autohet AAP in a sense just like the aap woman? Don't know where else to post this since this is the only active autosexual sub.

Ponder the following; if women were in to men the same way as men are in to women, you would be treated like a sexual object. Romance mostly exist because of the disparity between the desire in men and women, not only, but to a large degree I would argue.

There would be grindr for straight people where you send nudes to each other in order to have quick hook ups. A lot of times you would send a explicit picture(s) of yourself only to be blocked and ignored, and after 99+% of all your sexual interactions you would be discarded like the paper towel you used to wipe of the cum from said interaction, forgotten and of no other value. You start to have more and more soulless hook ups, not only to act out your sexual urges but also to stave off the loneliness and poor self-esteem.

My impression is that a lot of men would actually struggle with this mentally. Straight men seem to be quite sensitive around these things. Most of you would adapt in some way, albeit maybe in a dysfunctional matter. Have you as men ever considered this and if you would actually like it?