u/Normal-Objective1805

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My friend is harassing me

Hey so basically I was friends with this guy Chris for 2 years then we started to date… that didn’t work out so we just went back to being friends. I’m not being mean but honestly he doesn’t have a lot of people in his life and he struggles with awful anxiety. Somehow I’ve become his go to person and I can’t handle it, first of all I’m not good with stuff like this. But this has gotten seriously out of hand he calls my phone all day long and blows up my messages. Also I go by my middle name a lot and don’t really like my first name, there’s a very common nickname for it and I don’t like that either. He continues to call me honey and that nickname…I feel really bad if I were to cut him off but at this point it’s my only option so should I?

I’d also like to add that when we were together he’d constantly tell me that I was to codependent towards him and I needed to reach out and get a therapist….

u/Normal-Objective1805 — 4 days ago

I’m dragging my bf down

So I have a long history of sh and basically do a huge cycle of doing it once in a while then stopping for months so I relapsed again but worse than ever this time. I told my boyfriend about it and he asked me to at least tell him whenever I do it just so he know what’s going on and how much I’m doing it so I respect his wishes and do so. Everytime I tell him I did it he begs me to just talk to him instead of doing it… how do I explain to him that every cut is like words pouring out. Yes I understand what I’m doing is wrong and I’m sick, I don’t really care.

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u/Normal-Objective1805 — 1 month ago

What do I do

Basically I’ve been going through a rough patch and started cutting again, on my thigh. I usually go high enough that it’s only visible in underwear but I had a shitty night and it ended up on my thigh. Today at school one of my friends seen it and asked about it so I lied and said I went through a pricker bush, but I’m not sure if she believed it or not. I wouldn’t really be worried but she found out our other friend was cutting and reported her to the councilor. Now this friends parents knows and is being put into therapy, I’m afraid the same will happen to me. Please let me know what I should do if she did tell the counselor?

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u/Normal-Objective1805 — 1 month ago